Naruto and Boruto

SHOULD WE VIEW:
Naruto is a dead-beat daddy who neglects his family and doesn't seem to care about it, which is horrible considering his own lonely childhood (and his wistful looks at families during those times).
Boruto is a normal child justified in his actions because of his father's neglect of him and his mother and sister. He yearns for the days in the Kakashi era when they were one big happy family and is now frustrated at his father's present neglect and indifference.
OR
Naruto is a good man in a struggle. He always wanted to be Hokage, and he always wanted to feel the love & connections with people (best exemplified by marriage and family). Both desires have been fulfilled, but Naruto is struggling with trying to reconcile the responsibilities of being Hokage and being husband/father to the family he clearly loves dearly (the epilogue in THE LAST). Protecting the welfare of Konoha & maintaining stability with the other villages is a difficult & consuming job, and the person working it should not be so easily criticized (after all, should we call Hiruzen a dead-beat daddy because of his problems with Asuma?). Nevertheless, Naruto understands all too well how his present responsibilities are hurting his family, trying to make up for it (sending clones), and enduring the inner pain that it might not be enough (e.g. his son's tirades of him being a bad father).
Boruto is a spoiled brat who keeps losing his temper because he can't have his father at the snap of his fingers, refusing to understand his father or the importance of his job. His issues come off harder to support when one considers what Boruto has in his life (family and friends who support him), compared to what both his parents had to suffer in their childhoods.
OR
Is the matter more complex and not black-and-white? One gets where Naruto and Boruto are both coming from, and father and son do love each other very much, but they are both making mistakes.