Why is it "not a big deal" for a man to be raped?

Rape is rape no matter what gender. That it's "not a big deal" for a man to get raped is BS that's slowly being revealed as such. Men can be raped too whether the rapist is male or female and the trauma is no different.

The point of rape isn't the sex, it's the loss of control for the victim and a sense of power and control with the rapists. Worse than that, it's done using an act that's supposed to be intimate and an expression of affection between two people.

As to men who say they'd "love to be raped by a group of women" that's either a fantasy where, in their own minds, they have some measure of safety or they just don't know what they're talking about.

Rapists act without any regard to their victim. It's all about the rapist and they don't care about things like consent or safety (which was quite clearly and brutally demonstrated in both the original and the remake and its sequel). In fantasy role-play, you have rules and safe words. Rapists don't use that. Victims also don't have a choice in whether their rapist is "hot" or not, where, when, for how long or whether you get to walk away after it's over (if at all).

Plus, attractiveness is relative. You could have someone physically attractive but have that attractiveness undermined by their actions.

I would like to see a movie addressing not just this, but the injustice that men face. Most often a boy or may is labeled a homo if they report such crimes, and killed in other countries.

Feminists will cry blood if this happens, would be cool though some innocent family man being tortured by a bunch of man hating bitches judging them all the same and either him or his wife getting revenge doing nasty *beep* to them.

These movies aren't aiming for academy award acting nor good story lines, they just want to be remembered for "that" particular scene that everyone talks about.

The men saying they would love to get raped by women are thinking about some ideal fantasy where they pretend they don't want it and perhaps to a certain degree lose control, all fine as long as the females are jaw dropping hot and don't do anything he doesn't want.
I don't think these men would still think it's fun and hot once a 300 kilo heavy bald ugly old woman with saggy tits walks up to him with a 30cm long fat dildo.
That doesn't mean this same guy won't enjoy experimenting with an attractive woman with a reasonably sized strap-on.

Real rape is sex against your will. By definition it can't be pleasant if it's against your will.

As for a next movie idea, it'd be refreshing to have a male victim for once, indeed. But then it'd be more believable if it were men raping a man. Or just stop making new movies in this "series", 1 was great. Two was ok. 3 is too much.
A 4rd would have to be reaaaally good to save things.

It's a biological thing, men actively seek to impregnate women for breeding and the survival of the species, with as many as they can for greater success, it's in the genes and cells of human beings.

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but why do the women have to attractive?





i've got feelings too, ya know - inbetweeners

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EDIT AND SHORT VERSION:
Only sadistic rape would work on screen.
Also, let's just say that I am not interested in discussing the so-called "gender identity" that some people keep pushing and that I am posting this comment for people who know that men and women aren't the same. Here I will argue how men can get raped by women and why it would be hard to make it convincing on screen.



LONG VERSION:
Female rape on male is possible, although very difficult, unlikely and extremely rare. There have been stories in tabloids that were completely made up, but there have been real stories of men who were raped at gunpoint or drugged and raped. They were raped with the help of viagra or some kind of bondage which somehow kept the penis erected. The victims who endured the second treatment had to be hospitalised in every case which is not surprising....and even the thought of that makes me uncomfortable, must have been very painful.
Of course, most of the people who read such articles joked about it in the comments, not because they thought that the real rape is funny, but because they believe that every story like this is made up. I do not blame them. I used to believe that too.
But think about it....if lesbian rape with no penis invoked is possible, then female-on-male rape is possible too, despite biological advantages that men have. Not every women is attractive and not every men is attracted to every woman.

I would belong to one of those men since you cannot rape the willing and I am not picky (:D)....in my case, it would either have to be a relative or someone extremely ugly or hideously deformed. You see....the problem with female-on-male rape is that men are different than women. We think differently than women. Our penises are faster than our brains. Many of us would welcome a casual sex with confident and aggressive woman asking no questions and tearing our clothes. Even if a woman attempted to rape a man, there would be a small chance that her "victim" was actually a willing slave :)
There was one case of a woman who drugged and kidnapped her male victims and one of them stated that if she just asked him that he would let her (she was caught because her victims were hospitalised because she used the method I described earlier).
But most men who claim that they would enjoy if a woman attempted to rape them aren't aware that they probably wouldn't enjoy it and would get raped for real. Most men are way pickier than me and they wouldn't want to sleep with every woman. Some rapists are sadists, so they definitely wouldn't like that part.

Anyway, I am just taking into consideration all possible circumstances. A movie with female-on-male rape theme would have to take all of this into consideration.
A movie could work if female rapists were some kind of female gang of insane, repulsive, unattractive, butch female rapists who drug and rape their victim and keep his penis erected with some kind of bondage (this is an extreme example). It wouldn't hurt if they were sadistic, literal misandrists with a motive. Their sadism would have to be absolutely shocking, creative....something that would make an average viewer's stomach turned...stuff like forced bestiality, a tool that some real sadistic rapists used. Or making the male victim rape his own sister while threatening to kill her slowly if he disobeys (based on real cases), only to actually kill her afterwards and secretly serving him her meat for several days before revealing the truth to him.

Attractive and skinny female rapists would probably doom the movie from the start because an average male viewer would probably just laugh at it....unless a talented, competent director made their sadistic rape completely *beep* up, so *beep* up that the look of the actresses didn't matter. But even then, a wide range of women would be better. Perhaps it would work if the leader of the group was a manipulative woman who looked like an angel but was the worst monster you couldn't even imagine in your worst nightmares, someone that doesn't even rape but gets off on things like forced bestiality or making the guy eat his own faeces.

...I am full of ideas right now. And don't think it's just my imagination. Cases like these often end up in the news.

While I am convinced that the movie like this won't happen...I still hope that I am wrong.