Shirley

So I am not a regular watcher and have only watched a handful of episodes. And I do have empathy for these women, that are born into this lifestyle, and truly don't know there is better.
But this woman, Shirley, really gets on my nerves.
She knows there is better out there because her daughters have left and she sees their new lives. But yet she has chicikened out of leaving more than once. Then she whines nonstop about being miserable.
I give her daughters credit for not blowing up.
So then on recent episode I saw, her husband kicks her
out. So she has no choice then and that is the best thing to happen to her.
But don't even get me started with the packing fiasco. She wanted take her sweet time doing so and got mad at others who said she had to hurry.
I have no doubt she would have changed her mind again, but this time had no choice.
And what did her husband expect she and the children to live in an unsanitary dump? But fixed it up for another wife to move in after? Was she being punished?
I do feel bad that she can't find a job, now that she has left. Hope she does soon.