"Why can't we all just get along?"
These (in)famous words from Rodney King reveal an innately naive idealism, for which Rodney was mocked mercilessly. For the longest time, I really thought that Donnie was putting on a show- that no one could be this positive. But, the more I watch, the more I believe that, even though it's a TV show, Donnie truly is the person you see on TV.
It doesn't take a degree in psychology to know that the Wahlbergs have emotional baggage. I'm aware that this chapter is long over, but well adjusted people don't attack random Asian people while screaming racial epithets. These kids have issues. The father's alcoholism is public knowledge. In a family of this size, growing up in this much poverty, it's not going to be much of a stretch to speculate that abuse occurred. Donnie's naivety and stunted emotional growth, his child-likeness seems to point towards this.
Just to be clear, I'm not judging Donnie in the slightest. In fact, I think that his life experience has made him incredibly compassionate and kind. His empathy is not an act. His child like idealism is endearing. But extreme idealism and hyper romanticism may not be the healthiest way to approach relationships.
I'm not sure where I stand on Jenny. Donnie is WYSIWYG. The kindness he expresses outwardly matches up with a good heart. Outwardly, Jenny is a perfect match, but, inwardly, I'm not entirely certain where Jenny stands. Perhaps it's just a matter of time. I grew to see Donnie's innate goodness, so perhaps Jenny will grow on me as well. I hope, for Donnie's sake, it isn't an act and she truly does have a good heart, because he deserves to be happy.
Regardless of where Donnie and Jenny end up, I will continue to be riveted to my screen, because even though I may not find Donnie and Jenny to be "adorable," I find Donnie and the rest of his family fascinating. The Wahlburgers/Donnie Loves Jenny block could very well be my favorite thing on TV right now.
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