He shoplifts a sandwich because HE DOESN'T FEEL LIKE PAYING FOR IT???


He goes to great lengths to disguise himself because he is "on the lam." He knows the cops are looking for him. Yet he steals an effing sandwich??? This is a guy who has no doubt that he can get away with anything, and got tired of the cops not being able to find him.

I doubt that he killed the Berman dame because he didn't think he had anything to fear from anybody. The other murder victims were covered up. The mob connection seems like the most likely reason for that one.

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There was nothing that Berman knew about the mob that would make her a target for them. She was the daughter of an associate of Bugsy Seigel. She's an outsider, nothing more. Durst killed her because the district attorney was In the process of reopening the case and he didn't want her talking to anyone.

Touch darkness and darkness touches you back.

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Durst steals things like sandwiches and people's lives because he hates people. He's a taker, just like a lot of real estate magnates.

If Durst does you a favor and you need 200K, he'll lowball you and give you 100K.
If Durst is hungry and he's got 38K in his wallet, he'll steal food instead.
If Durst's wife files for divorce, he'll kill her instead of pay alimony.
If Durst's neighbor gets in the way of anything, he'll dismember him.
If Durst has a problem with anybody at all, watch out!


A couple becomes a couple when there's a house on the horizon

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He also sent people 25k-50k checks to help out with their life situations like they were nothing. A guy like Bob Durst just lives in another stratosphere in terms of being a regular person.

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This guy doesn't live in the reality that the rest of us live in. He has created a different one for him self.

A Philosophy professor I many years ago told us about the Professor he worked closely when he was in grad school as a TA. The guy had sort of adopted the personality of his specialized field. This guy was walking around in a school of higher learning suffering under the delusion of Solipsism. He thought the entire would and all of existence was his dream once he slept or even left the room it stopped happening. He had a team of grad students that supported this delusion because well he was on the board for the dissertation and also they where his teaching his classes.

Just like Mr. Durst this long dead Philosophy professor had a mistaken view of the world. They both have a support system who have the means and motive to uphold those beliefs. Dursts' family don't want to have there son who is by his words "jinxed' put away for deviant behavior. Just like the grad students in my story don't want the crazy Prof they can manage get upset and they PhD hopes to be ruined.

Tl;Dr- Some times people are crazy, sometimes people help crazy people maybe they are the luckiest people in the world?
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Shut it down

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The Berman lady could of been killed by Bobby or by the mob. She was writing a documentary about the mob dealings in Vegas and naming people that didnt wanna be named in that documentary. She could of easily been wacked by the mob just as easily as been wacked by Bobby to shut her up.

That one can stay unsolved as far as I'm concerned...

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When I saw the last episode, I was thinking of the movie that was loosely based on this, All Good Things, which I saw quite some time ago. In the film, it was depicted that Durst might have killed her not only because they were reopening the case, but because she was blackmailing him. Based on the episode, where she was in dire straits financially, and he was already writing out checks to her, this makes sense. She saw an opening to hit him for more money, or else she was going to rat him out to the DA. He decided to kill her instead, or have her killed.

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How much dirt could she possibly have on the mob from her long-dead father who died when she was a child??? Anyone she could likely effect is probably dead or soon to be and that's if you assume that her father shared his deepest, darkest secrets with a child!

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Exactly. She was no insider.

Touch darkness and darkness touches you back.

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Hi handsome.
There is no such thing as "could of". What you meant is "could've" which is a contraction of "could have".


There is no God. Free yourself from the oppression of religion.

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There is no such thing as "could of". What you meant is "could've" which is a contraction of "could have".



@sea monkey it seems very common now for some reason, I hate it.

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Then who wrote the note in Durst's handwriting - even he couldn't tell the different,

http://www.auplod.com/u/dalpuo430da.png
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Maybe he has shop lifted before, but this is the first time he got caught.

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I suspect that is it. He may be a kleptomaniac or it is just another symptom of his narcissism.

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They said it was almost like he wanted to get caught. It's probably the thrill for a narcissist to get a lot of attention, whether it be negative or positive attention it does not matter.

Plus, Durst with all his money knows he will win at any trial..another THRILL!

A couple becomes a couple when there's a house on the horizon

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I think he was bored with living on the run and since he loves the publicity, he decides to get caught doing something bizarre. He just doesn't seem to care about anything.

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If he wanted to get caught he would have done something more brazen than stealing a sandwich. In fact, what kind of supermarket calls the cops over sandwich theft?

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That's right. He's the naughty little boy who never grew up.

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He's a narcissistic psychopath with an uber-mensch mentality. He has grown up knowing that everything and everybody is his for the taking. Whatever he does, there will be no repurcussion. And if there's trouble, there's nothing money can't fix. And he likes slumming around. For reasons I just comprehend, but it's just something he likes to do.

And he's probably a compulsive shoplifter and kleptomaniac, and he has probably done it many times before. And it hasn't gone on his records, because he's always been able to buy himself out, with lawyers and money. He just thrives on the thought that he's untouchable. So, it's not a question about "getting caught", just the complete arrogance from a man used to get away with murder...

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I suspect that is it. He may be a kleptomaniac or it is just another symptom of his narcissism.


Possibly not, he guy is so rich and carries so much car with him, if he was caught in a small shop he might offer a couple of hundred to ignore it. Some of those small shops and the staff would take the cash than bother with the police and holding the guy in the shop.

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Nope, he killed her. Why would the mob send the cops such a letter after a hit. And the icing? Did it in the same style writing as Durst.
Now Durst does say in the series, in a mocking kind of manner, oh yeah someone spelled Beverly wrong and then when confronted at the end of episode 5, he was shown a letter he had written to Berman with the office address he had in New York. So he verified it, then shown the letter he had written to Beran with the same return address, and her address with the same misspelling and very similar block style lettering in the same handwriting he was visible taken aback. He couldn't explain it, the same misspelling and he had nothing to say except I can see how they would think I wrote it. He kept hammering on the block style lettering because in some books about how to get away with a crime, some forensic show I saw, the perp used a forensic handwriting book and one of the things was using block style lettering to make it difficult to discern who wrote it. However, it is apparent this guy did a poor job and you can see, I mean Ray Charles can see, the handwriting is very similar if not the same.

His face told it all. He knew the jig was up. He wasn't expecting to be confronted with evidence.

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Nope, he killed her. Why would the mob send the cops such a letter after a hit. And the icing? Did it in the same style writing as Durst.
Now Durst does say in the series, in a mocking kind of manner, oh yeah someone spelled Beverly wrong, in an episode or two prior, and then when confronted at the end of episode 5, he was shown a letter he had written to Berman with the office address he had in New York. So he verified it, then shown the letter he had written to Beran with the same return address, and her address with the same misspelling and very similar block style lettering in the same handwriting he was visible taken aback. He couldn't explain it, the same misspelling and he had nothing to say except I can see how they would think I wrote it. He kept hammering on the block style lettering because in some books about how to get away with a crime, some forensic show I saw, the perp used a forensic handwriting book and one of the things was using block style lettering to make it difficult to discern who wrote it. However, it is apparent this guy did a poor job and you can see, I mean Ray Charles can see, the handwriting is very similar if not the same.

His face told it all. He knew the jig was up. He wasn't expecting to be confronted with evidence.

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Nope, he killed her. Why would the mob send the cops such a letter after a hit. And the icing? Did it in the same style writing as Durst.
Now Durst does say in the series, in a mocking kind of manner, oh yeah someone spelled Beverly wrong, in an episode or two prior, and then when confronted at the end of episode 5, he was shown a letter he had written to Berman on office letterhead, of an address he had in New York of some congratulatory letter. So he verified it, then shown the letter he had written to Berman with the same return address, and her address with the same misspelling and very similar block style lettering in the same handwriting he was visible taken aback. He couldn't explain it, the same misspelling and he had nothing to say except I can see how they would think I wrote it. He kept hammering on the block style lettering because in some books about how to get away with a crime, some forensic show I saw, the perp used a forensic handwriting book and one of the things he used was block style lettering to make it difficult to discern who wrote it. However, it is apparent this guy did a poor job and you can see, I mean Ray Charles can see, the handwriting is very similar if not the same.

His face told it all. He knew the jig was up. He wasn't expecting to be confronted with evidence.

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I assume you have all seen the news by now that he was arrested for the Berman murder. The handwriting on the letter he wrote to her was devastating. Before he was confronted with that, he said "only the killer could have written that", referring to the letter to the police.

I think they've got him this time.

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My girlfriend, who is getting her Masters in social work and is studying mental disorders, says he has classic symptoms of Dissociative Identity Disorder aka Multiple Personality Disorder. A couple examples being talking to himself and referring to himself as "we" or in the third person from time to time. It is very possible that one part of Durst wanted to get away with his crimes while having another part who actually felt guilty and wanted to be caught. You could even say his request for doing an interview was a sign of this since it was against the advice of his lawyers. Also, the cadaver letter.

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Dissociative Identity Disorder is not a thing.

There was a movie/book in the '70s, "Sybil", which popularized the idea of Multiple Personalities. Total hoax. http://www.npr.org/2011/10/20/141514464/real-sybil-admits-multiple-personalities-were-fake

btw, watch your g/f closely. Sounds like she is setting up an alibi for when you catch her cheating or stealing from you, and she claims to 'have no memory of it' or that it was another personality who's mouth was engulfing another dude's d*ck.

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@jayCezy


Seriously? You have women issues---don't drag them into this firm.

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@activista, seriously? You seriously serious and ask if I'm serious?

Latinas have zero sense of humor, take themselves way too seriously, and nobody else does (for very good reason, as your post above demonstrates). Via Con Dios, Mami!;-)

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Hahaha.

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Dissociative Identity Disorder is a thing.

http://psychcentral.com/lib/dispelling-myths-about-dissociative-identity-disorder/

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Not a 'real' thing. (the 'expert' in that weak article is not even a medical doctor, just a Phd/psychologist looking to publish-or-perish and can't even prescribe psychotropics)

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