What I'm really talking about is people who will refuse any medical help for their dying child and will only use prayer. I see this a lot in the news. The children die.
First off, seeing something in "the news" is a cautionary tale to begin with. If you haven't discovered by now that the press isn't what it used to be, then you are not paying attention. The press covers what will fill their agenda and it is not to prove there's a God or that He loves us or works in our lives. So of course, all you'll see of this sort of thing is when people take the Bible out of context and refuse the medical care God has provided us through gifting people to learn this art and the parts of nature that provide the cures.
And I've been a believer for more years than I care to mention and I've been in the Bible all during that time and I have yet to find a passage that intimates that God demands a woman remain in an abusive marriage.
I believe the thing that either confuses the unbeliever or is ignored by the unwilling to believe is the fact that when you read something in the Bible, you assume it means God approves.
Well, tell me. Do you think God approved of King David taking another man's wife into his own bed, impregnating her and then having her husband murdered to cover it up? You think that was okay with God? I'd hope you'd be more logically minded than that.
No, God did not approve and David paid a high price, as did the child that resulted from that act. But the difference between David and maybe another, unbelieving individual, is that when confronted with the fact that God saw it all, David repented, placing himself at God's mercy.
Just because you read of someone doing something bad in the Bible, it is a fatal error to ever assume that God is okay with it. Even if it is someone who ends up being one of the "good guys". Even good guys, being human, do bad things. That does not negate God's existence. It does not negate His power to stop or overrule anything. God has given us a will and allows us to use it. That WE misuse it is not His fault. What is utterly ridiculous is to blame God for not mopping up all OUR wrongs.
If you have an ax to grind with God over war and pestilence and disease and the evil in the world, start by looking at your own rebellious heart. God owes us nothing. What HE made was perfect. WE screwed it up! That isn't His fault and as I pointed out, He is under no obligation to clean up after us. That He DOES at times is called "grace". The definition of grace? Undeserved favor. In normal people, every day language, that means we get good stuff when we deserve the bad.
Your best bed, Keith, is to stop looking at the flawed, corrupted human beings around you that have placed their faith in God, all the while remaining human and flawed and with sin in their lives, and start approaching God with a humble heart, even with your hardest questions. God isn't afraid of hard questions. He isn't even afraid of angry disbelief. All He asks-and DESERVES-is that you at least aim your angst at Him and not at the ones He's saved from their unworthiness and sin. We don't have a thing to do with your life, Keith. And we will always prove fallible. We will always have something at which an unbeliever will point and say 'You see? SINNER! HYPOCRITE!"
Hypocrites? Yep! We are! We know what perfection is supposed to look like and most of us at least aspire to it, but being human and IMperfect, will always fail. But the unbeliever is hypocritical as well, Keith. Any and every single human being on this planet has an idea of what the "right thing" to do is and we ALL fail to achieve it all the time. But we keep espousing what we believe is right, all the same. That makes us ALL hypocrites. It is, quite simply, a word that no one should throw around as self-righteously as it is thrown around in judgement of God's kids.
Approach God. With all the mystery that remains about Him, one thing I know for a fact. That a sincere, humble and questioning heart is never turned away. You still have the opportunity to decide whether you're going to believe Him or not, but He will not refuse to meet you where you are. Beware of trying to play "gotcha" with God. He always wins. We always lose. But if you're one who's hung up on the "why are there diseases and wars and children dying in the world?" type questions, God is ready for you. But you have to be ready to accept that He is God and you are not. That HE sees it all from a perspective you cannot and knows all the ins and outs and the ramifications of the actions He COULD take if He always just did what we asked. You know, the "be careful what you ask for, child, you just might get it" kind of things?
But this painting all Christians with the same brush...not good. I'm not sure, but are you the one that kept bringing up the Westboro bunch? I do not consider them a church and they hold no resemblance to any Baptist believer I've seen in nearly 50 years of being a Christian. And I STARTED in a Baptist church! LOL! The worst thing you could say of them when I came into the family is that rock music was considered satanic. They've loosened the reins since then, but they are not the type to stand and picket the funerals of dead soldiers with "God hates fags" signs.
And by the way? God doesn't hate gays. I hate that "f" word. It's ugly. God loves us all or John 3:16 is just a big, fat lie. And since God is not a man that He would lie, I just don't believe that God hates anyone. Our SIN, yes. But us? Nope! Not even the angry questioners.
Talk to God, Keith. He will be the one with all the answers. We are poor, poor imitations. Not EVEN imitations. Just followers and not perfect at THAT! Talk to God. He'll listen. But you need to as well.
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