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Excellent subject! But taking a refugee tent and resources?


Was so excited to view this film and then go nuts promoting it on social media. But, I was struck by the filmmakers taking a valuable resource like a tent, space, food, water, and time that is meant for the REFUGEES. Even if they said they payed for it, they are still consuming what is meant for refugees. The neighboring refugees did not want them there. They should have been ashamed of themselves when they were told the Za'atari refugees were all curious (seriously) why they were there living like them [taking their precious resources that are scarce already]. But, they laughed it off awkwardly and at that point, I had to turn it off for a while. I'll finish it soon. However, I wanted to ask you, the IMDb community: a) if you felt the same way about the filmmakers' approach? b) why do you think they chose the "full emersion" (not really) method? Was that really necessary if the goal is to bridge the gap between Americans and Syrian refugees? Or did they just do it because that's their shtick (their Living on a Dollar... which also didn't seem quite right for some reason)? c) if you were forced from your home, family members killed, made it to a UN refugee camp, and then had these plucky privileged filmmakers move in next to you and ask to film your life at that point....how would you respond?

p.s. I lived in Palestine for the better part of a decade, made frequent trips to Jordan, and I do whatever I can to talk to my community about the Iraqi and Syrian refugee crisis in Jordan. America needs to be more aware, but is there a better way to advocate for the refugees without humiliating them? I know he filmmakers said they asked permission, but I am familiar with the culture and more often than not, people will oblige for the sake of being accommodating/good hosts to their guests.

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I had the same initial reaction - "why are they taking?" "Can they not visit the camp and conduct interviews during the day while staying and consuming resources elsewhere?"

Simply stopping in for short visits daily may not have allowed the refugees to feel as comfortable sharing their stories and pain with the film-makers.

I think, especially for Americans, who are so far away and who haven't experienced war in their homeland for generations, there are just some things we cannot understand from the outside looking in.

I'm an American and I know many who let their fear of the unknown cloud their judgement regarding Syrian refugees. It hurts my heart when I hear some of the thoughts expressed by friends. A film like this, that puts a human face on the crisis, could perhaps ignite more compassion in the hearts of those who are afraid. In that vein, I think the decision to integrate and become official "members" of the camp was the correct one.

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I didn't see it as their neighbours not wanting them there. Where was that said? Sure, there was the initial disagreement right off the bat about them setting up in an area frequented by the refugee women, but that was a misunderstanding about how they would operate, and once it was clarified that no one would be filmed without their permission, all was forgiven. Aside from that initial incident: yes, the neighbours were curious as to why these affluent white guys wanted to live with them in the camp, but it wasn't out of not wanting them there, and judging by the many interviews I think many of these people caught on to the purpose of these filmmakers being there and opened up and really got into conveying that, just because they're Muslim, that doesn't mean that they're terrorists... they're moderate, sensible, hard-working people, capable of getting along with others who are different (there are aid workers with different beliefs, women workers without hijabs, no one appeared to be attacking them over those differences), just like most people all around the world, who don't want a war any more than most of us. They are just human.

As for the full immersion by living in the camp (or trying to, anyhow), I think it was to have a first-hand appreciation for how the refugees live, as much as possible, and connect with those living there as much as possible. Yes, it's these guys' schtick, like with Living on One Dollar, but it's one with a useful purpose. To eat what the refugees eat, sleep how the refugees sleep, experience the hardships that they do, as much as possible, in order to truly convey a first-hand experience to a Western audience like they did with Living on One Dollar, in addition to the personal stories of many of the locals with whom they interacted.

As for taking spots in the camp: I assume that they compensated the camp organisers for all resources, and while I don't know for certain, I would guess that these guys would have said that if it were down to a spot for them and a spot for actual, incoming refugees, that the camp organisers should oust them to give that space to Syrians fleeing the war. Given the UN and other high-profile non-profits involved, I'm sure that that would have been their policy, anyway. Camp security sure had no problem in telling the guys to leave because they didn't want to risk an incident of voluntary, affluent Americans being robbed at night by thugs (no doubt the news media would latch onto that story), I'm sure they wouldn't want a scandal of rejecting actual refugees to avoid evicting the optional Americans to get out, so they'd avoid having that happen.

On the whole, I think it was worth it. I've already been very liberal in my defence of the Syrian refugees, telling people that they are not this monolithic, big, bad Other, but people, just like us. Just like how there are moderate Christians and moderate Jews, there are moderate Muslims, and moderates of other religions. Me, I'm irreligious and atheist, but my problems are with ideologies, not people: a lot of people are moderate and don't adhere to every scripture, and as long as they don't force others to conform to their religious standards and can coexist in a multicultural society with a secular government and secular services, then I'm fine with them. Depending on the country in the Middle East, some Muslims have probably had to live under more fundamentalist, restrictive policy, but I'd bet that in their own thoughts, many are more progressive than those few who wield power over them. The documentary definitely gave me a stronger idea of how these camps function, and humanised these people even further, for me. Their lives in the refugee camps are less of an abstract concept, and now I have something to recommend to others, to help them better understand and humanise Syrian refugees and life in a refugee camp.

I hope that my country, Canada, opens up more spots to accept Syrian refugees. Our new Prime Minister is very liberal, and he committed to 25,000 in a matter of months from his party being elected, and I think in the past year it has reached something like 50,000. All of the stories I've read of these people coming here are of friendly, thankful people who just want to give back, who want to work hard (and you can see in the documentary how resourceful they got and how businesses and essentially a functioning city popped up, albeit in temporary shelters), who are neighbourly, who get out there and shovel the snow from their neighbours' driveways after a storm without having to be asked (which is soooo Canadian, too, so they fit right in), whose kids are excited to go to school and plan for their futures as doctors and architects and everything else (which gets me misty, reading about their excitement at just being kids, again). Many of these refugees left skilled trades and academic careers behind, in Syria, and are a valuable addition to our country and culture... and aside from a bit of cost for the few months worth of an adjustment period (which I just consider part of, y'know, altruism), they're not a drain on the system... and they don't "steal" jobs, because each person creates enough demand for goods and services that more jobs would be created, in general, to provide those things. It all works out. So I welcome them.

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