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Scott and Kourtney Need To Break Up

posted 10 years ago by EvilBloodyDoll
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I used to feel sorry for Scott the entire series but now I feel more like in a way I can kinda see where Kourtney is coming from. The fact is while I do think Kourtney is a bitch and is a horrible girlfriend, I do think Scott isn't very much of a prize either. I mean I can understand her getting sick of the drinking and the same *beep* he does for years now. Nothing has changed. The fact is this couple is totally incompatible and they have seemed so from the beginning I saw them on the show. They are probably just still together because of the kids and probably the money on Scott's side. He's getting a free meal ticket when he does nothing but go to "appearances" to drink. It is pretty pathetic. Like he even said on this show, he seems to just give Kourtney babies which is what she wants and only cares about in life and he does that and gets to live in luxury with her because of that. I mean I have to say their entire relationship just makes me sick. It's not one of true love or love for each other I could see that from very early on. Something is wrong with Kourtney emotionally probably from her own parents divorce but she's annoying and a lot of the time Scott seems like a childish douche too. Neither one of them seem to make the other a priority and they seem to have a very unhealthy relationship that really always has rubbed me the wrong way. I never see anyone really side with Kourtney and I can understand she is a bitch but I have to point out that Scott isn't some poor little innocent either especially just because both of his parents died. That isn't some excuse when he's been the same way for years now! The fact is, being with Kourtney is obviously toxic for him. She can't give him the love and attention he probably needs so I think they should just break up for good and he should find a girlfriend that will actually SLEEP in the same bed with him at night and maybe if he got some damn attention for once from a woman, he could start to grow up. I think they both just aren't meant for each other. I do agree with Kourtney that Scott needs to grow up, but I also think she's too much of a bitch of a girlfriend for him to deal with so they need to just go their separate ways.

[–] Brookiee124 10 years ago

I agree with you 100%. Unfortunately it's a case of "let's stay together for the kids" and I'm sure kourtney is using her own feelings of when her parents divorced. But the fact is the kids would probably benefit more having their parents apart and happy instead of together and miserable.

[–] EvilBloodyDoll 10 years ago

Exactly. She doesn't seem all there emotionally. Even in the very beginning of the series Keeping Up With the Kardashians, I never felt she was that into him. I feel like he was always the one more into her. There seemed to be more of a disconnect on her part and I felt she was always unsure of their relationship. It's always been rocky and now they are just together for the kids and I just think it's time for them both to move on. Like you said, the kids won't benefit from seeing unhappy parents.

[–] readyforbed 10 years ago

If what they are showing is real at all, then their relationship is truly dysfunctional.

I think Kourtney acts unemotional as a defense because Scott has been screwing up for years. Remember the episode where he forced the hundred dollar bills into the waiter's mouth in Vegas in a drunken rage? If that was a real scene that was a horrible thing to see.

Again, IF there is any reality to how Scott is with alcohol, he clearly has serious issues with it, and probably needs to go through a treatment program.

Scott can be funny and he can be very sweet with his kids. And sometimes he can be fairly insightful about other members of the family.

I really think that part of Scott's issue is that he has no structure or direction in his life. If he cold find an actual career, he might actually be a happier guy. Even if he doesn't need the money, it isn't normal for a man his age to not be productive at all.

Kourtney seems very sealed off from him, but maybe this is a learned behavior from him breaking his promises over and over. I personally think she needs to decide one way or the other if she wants him in her life. If she does, then she needs to go to therapy herself, and encourage Scott to get into a program. Then eventually they need intensive couple's therapy and possibly family therapy with the kids.

[–] EvilBloodyDoll 10 years ago

The thing is though, on the show they have said they have been going to therapy, individually and couples and it doesn't work. They talk about boundaries in therapy and Scott breaks what they agree on so that's a problem. But I feel sorry for Scott because Kourtney has always seemed way way too cold to him. Why would anyone want to be with a cold person? What kinda of relationship is that? Kourtney either should love him for who he is or break up with him if she is truly turned off by his behavior. It drives me crazy how she treats him. Yes he is childish too but damn this is the man she chose to be with and have kids with. It doesn't make sense to me why she is so mean to him and why she doesn't show him any love. She doesn't seem to be in love with him or care about being in love with him so I think the relationship is doomed. He might have upset her in the past but if she can't get over the things that he has done, I think that's a big problem. I've seen their relationship since the first episode. Things got ugly fast between them and they broke up and eventually got back together and it's just declined ever since. They have a very toxic relationship. And honestly the only reason I can figure she is still with him is because she wants more of his sperm to get more kids out of him.

[–] readyforbed 10 years ago

Kourtney is a beautiful and wealthy woman with connections. She could find another man to father her children if she wants more kids. I am not sure why she would stay with Scott just for his sperm.

So I think there must be some sort of affection between them. In the many pap photos of them, they seem happier, often holding hands, etc. So I always wonder who much of this is scripted.

I mean, there is a lot of "proof" of Scott getting into trouble with drinking over the years, Altercations in bars, and other general bad behavior.

But I do agree, if the show is really showing the truth here, then their relationship is seriously troubled.

[–] booboos 10 years ago

I thought he would cheat all the time on her, in the beginning of the show...and she still took him back every time. LIke when they were in Miami and she would call him and hear some girl's voice in the background...early morning at his house.

WHY did she keep taking him back? Why? He had one foot out and half his body out the door and she brought him back to her and the family. She refused his marriage proposal too, right?

she thought she would change him or he would change after Mason was born, but oops, just like every other human, he didn't change to suit her needs, and now she resents him.

UGH, hate her lol.

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[–] rosepetals334 10 years ago

I hate her too. I don't feel sorry for her, she is the one making her life hell by keeping scott around. I WISH THEY WOULD BREAK UP and I hope kuntey gets stuck taking care of all 3 of her b@$t#rdZ

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