When there was a group of 4 people standing on the stairs discussing Josh, someone came up and said "what?" and Lace dismissed her and said "I can't stand her". It was someone with long brown hair so....could be anyone.....
shareIt was Caila. I backed it up to make sure. Ashley was standing there in the group talking. It was Caila who was walking up the stairs and Lace said she couldn't stand her.
I can't stand her either.
"Your petty vengeance fetish will have to do withOUT Mr. Groin!"
Of everyone there lace is probably the only one I would not even go on a date with or have any attraction to
shareCaila. The show gave her the "innocent" edit. Carly tweeted and Jared said on After Paradise that many other people came to him with concerns over Caila. The show made it look like Ashley was the only one.
You don't know how the show will edit things. You don't see the whole story and its nice to hear the commentary from the people after the fact.
I kind of wondered if things were sketchy between Caila and the rest of the cast. She was already crying when Ashley went to talk to her.
shareJared pretty much confirmed as much on After Paradise.
The show continues this whole concerns about Josh angle and looks to be doing it again next week, and let the everyone in paradise has concerns about Caila angle thing go largely unaired.
Um, it is un-aired because it doesn't exist. What does "concern" even mean?
Sean Lowe straight up asked Ashley what's her issue with Caila, and Ashley herself APOLOGIZED for acting like an immature high school backstabber. That's straight out of her mouth.
Besides, consider the source: two psychos Lace and Ashley and their crowd. Not really a crowd I would hang out with.
No its unaired because Caila made sure to not say anything bad on camera. Therefore, the show couldnt shy why the contestants were mad, and therefore didnt show it. Almost everyone has come forward and said Ashley was right and no one liked Caila. But keep living your not informed life.
shareLace, Ashley and all the other girls with the same feather hate Caila.
Not really surprising. Lace and Ashley looks like gross girls in college who get drunk, and sleep around.
IMO Caila really is a sweet, innocent girl, just like Sean Lowe said. And THAT'S WHY these haters hate her. Up to now, no one can explain what that bs "concern" means.
They hate her BECAUSE she is not gross like them. They are shocked there is actually a decent person like Caila who is their exact opposite.
These girls behave like idiots on TV and then charge it to "edit" when the proof is in the pudding for everyone to see. OF COURSE the show edits, but they only heighten the character that is already in them in the first place.
Edit is not the same as misrepresentation. This is always the case with every reality show. Sometimes, the producers themselves ask them if they are misrepresented and all they can say is "it was edited". Nonesense.
She's not that innocent. She was called a sex panther by Ben and then she screwed him in the fantasy suite.
shareI can't stand Caila either.
shareLOL you put it very well.
Caila is very fake.
It's a jungle, I'm a freak. Hear me talk, but never speak.
Really? A "sex panther"?
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I'm not sure I would go that far to use those words. But, I do agree with the main idea of what you are saying. I don't think Ashley and Lace are nice girls. You find out who a person really is when they are under pressure.
Under pressure Lace and Ashley acted like Regina George from Mean girls. Both have a lot of growing up to do. Especially Ashley. I'm an emotional person too. I cry when I'm sad, mad, or frustrated...but she takes it a step further to manipulate people. I think now its such a big habit, she's having a difficult time controlling herself. I think it used to work for her when she was younger, but now, it's ridiculous. I used to like Lace. I loved that she was really trying to work on herself and grow as a person. I hope that's still an ongoing thing with her b/c I've been a tad disgusted with her behavior in the past few episodes.
Under pressure Caila was still a pretty nice person. So what if she wasn't into Jared as much as he was into her? They knew each other, for what? 2 weeks? And within that 2 weeks Ashley was following them around, talking crap about Caila, and crying all the time. I'm not sure I would want to invest my feeling to a guy I just met who had such severe baggage that literally followed them around. Sometimes love takes time. It took my husband and I 3 years to get there. Plus, Caila said she's not one to open up very easily.
It's weird to me that people "can't stand her". Its fine if she's not your favorite person, but people on here can be hateful. Why? Because she is nice? I once had a friend who was very nice like her and people were hateful to her too. People could never give me a solid reason for their hate. I think that when people are around someone that nice they start to look at themselves and feel the cognitive dissonance. It can be very uncomfortable for some people to self reflect. They might not like what they see. Then they use a cop-out excuse that she is fake. No, that is a way to make her seem more fallible so you don't seem so bad yourself. If you knock her down a few levels, it makes you seem you've gone up a few.
I'm all ears if someone can give me a solid reason why Caila is so bad.
I'm with you, Rika.
I am no crazy Caila fan, and she even threw me off on Ben's season, but I don't understand hating her. And not only that, hating her...and defending Ashley I. There is a way to go about things, there is a way to express your feelings without being the loudest and most dramatic person in the room, and Caila gets flack because she DOESN'T do that? Ashley is mentally ill, period. I can't fathom anyone that sticks up for her, but I don't HATE her. I am glad she wasn't the Bachelorette, as I don't think she really has the personality to carry it, but she is not a person worthy of hate.
I think you were right stating that people HAVE to knock Caila down to justify hating her. They also have to elude to some mythical times when she was a horrible person to make themselves feel better about hating her. "No one really knows what we saw..." "They didn't show EVERYTHING"....give me a break. If it was worth showing...they would have showed it. Stop acting like you all have the privilege of knowing so many thing the general public doesn't know. Carly, Amanda, Jubilee all elude to these "times never to reach the light of day" in which Caila reveals her true colors! Since when has anyone in this show not spilled the beans? I don't buy it. At all.
I defy all of the BIP people to free themselves of the burden and released your secrets, inquiring minds want to know. As it stands, Jared has no balls, mixed emotions, a bland personality and an unhealthy connection to Ashley. That is what ended him and Caila. And I cannot see how that is Caila's fault.
I'm no fan of Caila either. She's just there, she doesn't really stand out.
But I still have not heard a decent reason why haters don't like her apart from questioning her "innocence" which are soooo lame. Weather she is or not, what does that have to do with me, or someone else other than the guy she's interacting with?
She's not hurting anyone, unlike Lace and Ashley and a few others like them who are backstabbing, just ugly people inside out.
This "i can't stand Caila" is PURE mean girls high school jealousy IMO.