Ftr I hardly consider myself a reflexive optimist when it comes to endings that are more or less open ended, but neither am I a rank pessimist.
I can discount some of what is mentioned above that would lead to a skeptical view. For example, I don't see Eleanor following him through the park with their history in the park if all she has to do is tell him she found someone else. Why even bother? Why bother to let him know she's back at all unless she wants to at least explore going in a direction that brings them closer?
Connor on the other hand gives all the signals of still being in love with her. He's alone, needs to get his thoughts together "before the rush". So where does he go? Somewhere that reminds him of her, of their shared past.
He's not "moved on", in other words, and I agree with the mention above that when Eleanor said she loved him, the way he said "I know" indicated NOT that he was not prepared to say he loved her, too, but that her love for him meant they still had a future.
What that future would be, however, IS left open. I think they have to find a way to recognize in practice what I think they already know in their heads, which is that they can't have the same love they had before. It will have to reflect the difficulties they've been through.
Both fathers in effect allude to a truth about relationships. People can fall in love more than once, I think it beyond question. But even if the notion that "only one" can, well, really get to you is perhaps something less than universally true, there is a lot of power and truth to the notion that some aer going to be harder to get over than others. Maybe some you never "get over". Both dads say that in effect and implicitly suggest that Eleanor and Connor are, respectively, those people.
That in itself does not mean that they will work it all out. But I think as the film ends they are poised to make a real attempt to do so.
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