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I don't think the father is a gay....


Okay, its just a Southern thing. Southern men are better mannered and better dressed overall than Northern men and usually have a certain grooming style . I am from the South and many people thought the same thing about me. Because its just a grooming thing and the way we are in the South taught to be gentlemen and polite. Particularly, urban Southern men have a particular grooming style which at times is considered "metrosexual" but its not really. I notice people say the same about the British.

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I think it's his dialect and his mannerisms too. I was just watching a show today with a straight Southern man who behaved and sounded the same as Todd.

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Could you be more blind? It's an insult to Southern men that you think that's the excuse. Southern men don't act that way naturally. It's the elephant in the living room.

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I'm southern too. I think that for some men's voices the accent can come off high and tinny. That doesn't mean much. That can be said for several North American accents, but on the whole you know how most American men sound. Its not like this. Don't kid yourself.

Manners? Ok, I know what you mean, but lets not carried away or kid ourselves that ours are better.

Its not about sweeping southern stereotypes that you try to put together. Everyone is probably right. He is probably gay.

His mannerism are very effeminate and his speaking voice is high. If you saw this man casualy in a store you would not walk away with an impression? I'm not saying its a bad thing. It's just odd I think to see this guy present himself as an "All American Family Man." That's the issue I have. It all looks like one big lie.

Not to mention that if you do some research you will learn about the debt and see that they live well beyond means. It does not look like it does on the television show.

I am from the South and many people thought the same thing about me


Are you gay? That is not a bad thing. I'm asking because I saw your post on the "Dango Unchained" message board and you seem like a troll.
You posted that slavery was not that bad. You talk about a great-grandfather having 30 slaves and never beating them. If he did or not you are insulting every black person that reads that. I'm sure that slavery was a walk in the park for most...





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I am not gay, nor a troll. And I was serious in my post. Why are following me around to other message boards?

Being polite and being well mannered and paying attention to grooming is part of being a Southern Gentleman.

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No, I have no "gimmicks". I am sincere in what I say. I have been called a troll, but I am not. In fact, I have been trolled upon myself. I don't wish that on anyone.

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Thank you!

I am placing him on ignore.

He is a vicious troll.

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You're kidding, right? Men in NYC, Boston, Chicago (and elsewhere) have it all over any so-called southern gentlemen. And there's a reason the rest of the country refers to the stereotypes of "southern white trash" and "rednecks". These stereotypes didn't invent themselves and, while they can sometimes be exaggerated, they exist because of the overwhelming prevalence of those 'qualities' that define them. The mere fact that the Northeast region of America is home to more superior colleges and universities than any other region of the country speaks for itself. And as for the grooming and mannerisms of Northern men? That laughter you're hearing is Manhattan and at least half of New England laughing at your ridiculous ignorance.

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The term has always been "white trash", its never, nor has ever been " Southern white trash". White trash isn't regional. There are lots of white trash up north. Upstate NY and Illinois are prime examples. South has better looking women folk.

As you stay stereotypes are for a reason. And the long held stereotype is that The North is rather crude people who lack manners and have a more abrasive way of doing things . There are a small minority of "blue blood" in the Northeast- and they are not the majority. Same goes for the South. Although according to the liberal media you'd believe that all Southerners drive John Deer tractors and are all card carrying members of the Klan!

There are many wonderful Northerners who aren't rude, and they can be nice . But speaking in generalizations. Northern people tend to be more blue collar Archie Bunker types who speak really loud and use rough language. As for colleges and Universities, while the north may have more ivy league schools, the South has plenty of great schools as well. I'm too tired to name them all. Northern tourists often bring their tackyness down South on business trips and vacations to Virginia and Myrtle Beach. Southerners try hard to be polite and endure their over bearing presence.

That's why its called "Southern charm" . There is no such thing as Northern charm. Sorry if I offended you .

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Yea, you're as stupid as the OP. Both of you subscribe to stereotypes that are untrue. New England has it's share of rednecks and white trash as well, although you won't admit it.

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Hmmm, did some bitter person get kicked out of New England because they were a white trash redneck who couldn't afford to live there or get into any of the better schools? I take offense at both arguments. The southern jealousy of the the north (Northeast, in particular) that takes the form of stereotypes is just as offensive as the southern white trash stereotypes. Funny that someone mentioned Myrtle Beach. My New York (Ivy League-educated) family owned a restaurant there. Our clientele ran the gamut. Locals, rich golfers (primarily from the Northeast), college kids from ALL over on Spring break... But there was a TREMENDOUS resentment from many locals, especially our employees, a LA "How DARE these Yankees come here and 'make' US work for THEM!?" There are FAR too many southerners still fighting the Civil War and I witnessed it first-hand. They hate you for being a 'Yankee' and still carry a grudge over a war their great grandpappy lost to us 'filthy yankees'. And that 'mentality' carries over, to this day, in stereotypes directed at the winners of that war who haven't given a second thought to the losers who still can't seem to let it go, 170 years later.

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Its the opposite, the North is jealous of the South. There is no such thing as Northern charm. The South is more rich in culture and heritage. Northerners are the ones that chips on the shoulders. Even a wealthy northerner would never fit into old money Charleston, or Richmond or Savannah. They would have to pretend. Even the finest families of the North cannot claim primogentiure.Look at Virginia's registry of families vs Massachusettes. The North values "self made" men I've never heard of a "Northern Belle". Or a "Northern Gentleman"..

To say that the South is only white trash and rednecks is just as wrong as saying that the entire Northeast is like the cast of "Jersey Shore".Its not that all Northerners are rude and lacking in manners, its just that a majority of them are more blunt and don't mix pleasantries.

A Southern businessman in a Northern executive office will have a difficult time because he likes to beat around the bush, whereas the Northern businessmen want to get right down to business. Its a cultural divide that probably originates to the original settlers who came from different parts of England.

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Honey, I stopped reading at your first ridiculous statement. The south is something superior Northerners laugh at when at cocktail parties you can't get into. "The South Shall Rise Again", huh? Taking a mighty long time about doing it.

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You can scoff if you must. I have friends from the UK,and while they cringe at most Americans, they actually find Southerners refreshing, because their manners are so much better and so much more culturally like England .They tolerate the Southern accents moreso than the General American because they say its less harsh and irritating and they can actually understand them more because of the striking similarities to British English.

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Honey, I stopped reading at your first ridiculous statement. The south is something superior Northerners laugh at when at cocktail parties you can't get into. I ASSURE you: there is no Northern envy of anything south of of the Mason-Dixon line that you trash know so well but haven't the slightest conception of anything approaching modern day reality. "The South Shall Rise Again", huh? Taking a mighty long time about doing it.
Go back to your trailer and quit while you're behind, trash. I'm sorry you're a bitter loser. But you are. Have that reality cookie with your lemonade.

Why am I even talking to this feces? On, wait! I'm superior and don't have to!

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Holy crap, you delusional ass-clown! New England has WAY more historical significance! WAY to prove yourself wrong, imbecilic moron!!! Go back to history class or at least learn where this country was founded. You make a mockery of any thinking people of the south, you jackass.

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You're kidding me, right? Honey, please stop disrespecting the North that will ALWAYS be superior to you in ALL ways, you jealous trash: class, fashion, culture, history, sports and education. You can not win this non-argument in any of those categories. Check and mate.

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Really, tired of beating a dead horse. But in general (and this is a generalization) Southerners dress up more and more formal than people up North. Unless you're talking about some small po dunk town, the cities and larger towns are that way. When I see northern tourists- granted the ones who are over 60, they are almost always in sweat pants and fanny packs complaining about the heat. Its hard not to notice because they always seem to be talking in a loud voice that a deaf person could hear. And they always complain about our lack of mail boxes- as if that is something of utter importance.

I welcome them because they do bring in money and help the economy. But I don't think they are the pretense of fashion. I know many Northerners who have never been to a "cocktail party" in their lives, much less would know what a shrimp fork was for or anything of table manners. And while the North may have better schools on average (and that is marginal still), how many Northerners actually attend those schools? I bet you the working class joes up North can't afford the Ivy Leagues, not even with scholarships. But that being said- the thing I really DO like about Northern people, is they don't hold back. If they don't like you, they tell you! Its kind of refreshing in a way.

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I don't care if you're from the North, or the South, that attitude is pompous, pretentious and not typical of the well-educated person you claim to be. And attempting to excuse yourself from blame by saying "they do it" just makes you as lame as they are.

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You're kidding me, right? The only thing pompous and pretentious here is your entire post. It is also 100% untrue, I might add.

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Nope! Not kidding you.

In fact, you also seem narcissistic.

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Yawn 

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He's not gay. I have a high voice too and people say I'm gay but I'm not gay just because I have a high voice. The father is effeminate too but that also doesn't mean he's gay.

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It's much more than just the pitch of his voice, it's the way he speaks, moves, acts and dresses. He pretty much epitomises the gay male stereotype.

I say this after having watched 5 minutes of this show, a very confusing 5 minutes which resulted in me heading directly to this message board to see if anyone could shed some light on the issue. Of course, we wont know anything for sure unless he comes out and confirms it himself, but I wouldn't be at all surprised if he did.

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I've been watching this show for literally 2 minutes and the dad SCREAMS gay.

Now before anyone jumps down my throat:

A) There is nothing wrong with being gay
B) 4 of my VERY good friends are gay males and they would very much so agree with me
C) Its not just his voice/accent...the way he talks, the way he walks..anyone who says that is a stereotype - it's not. While
There are many gay men that do not fit that stereotype at all, there are also a lot
That do.

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The Bible is very clear about homosexuality being a sin.


"Life is like a box of Krispy Kreme donuts".

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Not everyone shares your view on this matter. Using the whole "But the Bible says so!" argument, doesn't hold any weight when speaking to others who believe or feel differently.

Hope changes everything.

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The Bible is very clear about homosexuality being a sin.

and
"Life is like a box of Krispy Kreme donuts".


I generally don't troll, but after reading post after post re: your superior Southern Charm, I can't help myself. Those two quotes pretty much sum up what many Northerners think of when they think of the South...and it's not charm. Bless your hearts.

As for Todd Chrisley, I would guess that he is gay, but it's not my business. If he's more comfortable in a traditional, married life, I wish him and his family luck and happiness.

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People in The UK make fun of the soccer player, David Beckham all the time, because they say he has a high pitched voice. I don't think his voice is all that highly pitched, but it has had an effect where he wouldn't go on talk shows (and if he did, give very short, quick answers, to speak as little as possible). He has since gotten over that shyness, but that was only since they moved to California.
The pitch of someone's voice has nothing to do with sexuality. It is like saying women with a deeper voice are all lesbians. The deepens of ones voice has to do with the thickness of one's vocal cords, and can also be changed by internal nasal and soft palate firmness and closeness.

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Do you see some irony in saying "We Southern men dress well" while wearing a wife beater in your avatar? The only people who dress like Chrisley in the South are in the Southeast. The rest of the South doesn't dress that way and has no desire to dress that way.

I also think Chrisley seems gay. I've known many Southern men like him, and thought they all seemed gay, although I can't say with certainty that they were. I don't know if it's a thing among some Southerners, or if it's because they're gay, but I've always suspected that later, even though I think they're often lying to themselves.

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Southern, Northern, Western...whatever...the way you dress doesn't say anything about your sexuality

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this guy is a complete flamer. wouldn't be surprised if he sh!ts glitter. and this is coming from a gay man, I know one when I see one.

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Its not a southern thing but a feminine thing. He screams gay from the TV commercials I saw. I thought this was a reality show about a gay guy pretending to be a straight guy. Its has nothing to do with manners or anything. It also doesn't help that he has had a lot of plastic surgery.

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