Am I the Only One???


Am I the only one who sees Dean as a jerk?

HE cheated on her, yet HE keeps acting like the victim. Why?

He admits that he wasn't ready for the changes that came when they had the kids. He admits that Tori
had to step-up and take care of the kids because he wasn't there for them. However, the moment he
gets in trouble, he reverts back to "Poor Dean."

That's ridiculous! Ridiculous!

HE did wrong. He humiliated her and the family. He should be going above and beyond
to make it up to them and get on their good graces. Instead, he is nit-picking Tori over
every move she makes.

The scene about his friend from rehab? OMG. One, Tori had already said REPEATEDLY that
she wasn't an option. Two, it's a close girl friend of his that he has a bond with and too soon after he cheated. Three, she is recovering from her own addictions! That's a huge cause for concern around her children. You don't do that!

She said "No", and it's like this power struggle he has with her stemming from his own insecurities.
Not because of his "addiction", but because of his own fears. He ran away from MJ and his son right as
he and MJ were adopting another baby. He gets with Tori and it's all fun and games, so long as they have
money and no responsibility. The minute children come into play, he runs again. First it was him playing on bikes
and taking scuba lessons, avoiding auditions, while she ran those businesses and raised the kids. Then he cheats
on Tori while he is in Canada.

He should just man up and stop being dramatic, trying to gain sympathy for his selfish actions.



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No you're not the only one. I've been saying it on these boards for awhile now. I think he's behaving like a manipulator. Every time she calls him out on his s hitt, he turns it around back to him so she can become worried about him again and if he's going to become suicidal. He's doing it so he can't be responsible for his s hitty actions. He's a disgusting Piece of sh ittt.

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He is a total jerk! I've seen how he manipulates her over and over again and it's so frustrating to watch!
the saddest thing in life is wasted talent

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OMG! Thank you both!

Everyone else seems to see him as a victim and it was driving me crazy!

He's like a child: every time he does something wrong, he throws a tantrum and makes her feel guilty.

The part where he was protecting his friend from rehab? That irked my nerves so much.

He was being protective of her (the friend) and then blaming Tori, claiming it was a power struggle with her. SMH.

All he ever does is complain about Tori. If you ask me, I don't think he's sorry about the affair, about humiliating his family, about any of his actions. All he wants is to justify his crappy actions.

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he's not sorry for anything he did; to Tori or to MaryJo. he's sorry he got caught. and after everything he and Tori went through, what in the world was he thinking, bringing in that chick from rehab? smh

the saddest thing in life is wasted talent

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Agreed! He really thinks everything he has done is okay. The he has zero responsibility for anything and he flips the situation like that!

The part where he was bringing in his friend from rehab? RIDICULOUS.

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I think they're both jerks. He is a master manipulator and she is just a loon. I feel sorry for their children.

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He is a jerk. I think they both are at fault for the problems they have. They are so selfish and self-centered that they can't see that their children are the ones who are suffering

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