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What is the appeal of this show?


I am doing some research on period pieces focusing on strong women, which weave in historical people and settings. Please tell my what you like most about this show.

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I think it's about seeing a familiar history told from a different perspective. I live in Florida, so even though I'm too young to remember the early days of the space program, I've been to the Kennedy Space Center multiple times, and these stories, these names are familiar to me. But I never knew about Annie Glenn's struggle with stuttering or that Gordon Cooper had a wife who wanted to be an astronaut or anything like that. So that was what made it interesting.

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Good points.

For me, it's a lot of nostalgia. Born in '62, I was in grade school for the Apollo shots, so the names are familiar and some of the stories. More though, is seeing it through the eyes of the wives. It's a world I'm familiar with: the military family, and the 60s culture. I see things in their houses, clothes they wear, food they 'carry-in' or their hairstyles and my brains just goes: 'yeah, I remember that'. It's like comfort food for my brain and memories.

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Sara I was born in 1964, and I can still remember our principal and teachers, gathering us in a large area in the basement of our school, and us watching the launch of Apollo 13. I remember how we children watched it, mezmerized by what we were witnessing! Fast forward through the years, and the space program only took up t.v. time, if there was some sort of issue, the awe of space travel was long gone!

As for the Astronaut Wives Club, I enjoy seeing some of the items from my youth, the furnishings, home decor, like the big black and white cabinet televisions. You asked about the women specifically though, I think that what I appreciate, is that the range of personalities of the wives, encapsulated the times well. There were the women like Louise Shepherd, while happy to be homemakers, they still asked, 'What if?' The women like Trudy Cooper, that feigned happiness to advance their husband's careers. Rene Carpenter that decided she couldn't quell the question, 'What if?' The other wives, while not being 'career' women, that took care of their homes, supported their husbands, but still did important works, like Marge Slayton (Mother Marge). You have to appreciate the pressures those wives faced, this was occurring during the infancy of the Women's Lib movement, and much like it is today (though not near as contentious) women that chose not to work outside the home, were for the first time, feeling like they had to justify being homemakers. As though it wasn't enough and they were falling short.

I also enjoy how the women were diverse in many ways, which was glaring in the beginning, but because only a small group of individuals would ever know how they felt, they came to rely on each other for not only friendship, but needs the outside world, not NASA not even their husband's could fulfill! I'll admit, I cried at the end! Not sure if any of what I have typed helped you or not Sara. Good Luck with your paper!

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Women's history is 'traditionally' hidden away from public view. It's not considered important for women--and certainly not for men---to learn about. Or to care about. Learning about American history from women's point of view is revolutionary.

The public façade these women put on as the dutiful spouse-happy homemaker contrasted with an often complex reality. Some of them did have aspirations beyond just being the wife of the guy who goes into space. I might disagree with one thing a guy I occasionally meet does-says, but it is nothing compared to the blatant sexism these women ran smack into during this era. They were strong!!

And I myself was born in Houston (1979). Watching this series and imagining the locations and neighborhoods I've actually passed by 'back then' was neat. NASA and the launch of the space program did a LOT for the Texas economy.

Something that I admittedly just passby did so much when it first opened---not just for the people immediately employed, but for the other businesses/infrastructure which sprung up because of NASA opening in the area.

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I agree Pioneer when you say these women wore "Public facades", not only public, but depending on the relationship, even with their own spouses. The difference in these cases, (if the relationships were portrayed accurately), is that some of these men knew their wives were wearing them, Trudy Cooper for example, yet as long as it fulfilled his needs, he cared little about her happiness.

The birth of the women's movement, caused mixed emotions and raised questions within many women. It also changed greatly the dynamics of many marriages, some 'already in progress'. Like I said before, women that had quelled wanting more and asking why they couldn't have it, were now told they could, and did! If women were finding it complex, is it any wonder men were turned on their ears!

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These women (like their husbands) then were steeped in military culture. The original NASA astronauts were all/had been military test pilots.

So acknowledging that something was 'not right' in their lives was a bigger jolt for the women than it would be for us today.

They weren't supposed to question the order of things.

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My husband was an Air Force officer (he's retired now); although he was a laboratory officer, not a pilot or navigator or at all connected to flying, we lived pretty much the way the families did at that time. All of our friends were either our neighbors on the base or guys he worked with and their wives. His first two years, he attended the Air Force Institute of Technology at Wright-Patterson AFB in Dayton, Ohio, and all our friends were his fellow students and their wives (the AFIT Wives Club!). So it's very familiar to me. The major's wife was our Mother Marge. However, almost all of the couples are still together, but we didn't have the stresses of the space program.

When he was stationed at Kirtland AFB, New Mexico, we did have a neighbor who was building an airplane in his garage. We left before it was finished, so I don't know how it worked out!

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EXACTLY! Even today, if a military male (more likely if the military member is male; and lets face it, 85% of the Navy is male, I suspect it's similar for the other services, although USMC is probably a bit higher and AF may be a bit lower) has ambition for high rank, his wife has to (at some point) put her career on the back burner and support him. There are some areas where it's not such an issue (medicine - lots of dual military in the Medical and Nurse Corps with the spouse being somehow involved in military medicine).

Until very recently (and currently with some denominations/congregations) a Minister's wife was the same; when a church hired a Minister it was assumed the wife would run Sunday School, the choir, and/or be the church secretary. Some women are making it clear that the husband was hired, not her.

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The point you made about relying on one another because the 'outside world' wouldn't understand if very true about military life. Even with the Internet you will find 'old school' wives who don't air military laundry outside of the circle. Many of us get/got rather annoyed with some of the young ones who do publicly gripe about little things. I'm sure that many specialized communities experience the same thing.

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I think that type of 'Keep it in the family' mentality still exists, and affects the families of those in occupations like; the military, law enforcement including corrections etc. Because much of the work is confidential, some won't discuss it with their spouses, but if they do, those spouses are unable to discuss it outside of the circle!

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I enjoyed this show because it shows an amazing time in our history as Americans and women. I also love Mad Men. I think America was a much more polite and gentrified place before the late 60's when everything went crazy. I was born in 1968 and my son born in 1998 cannot believe the changes our country has gone through in just my lifetime.

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The appeal of this show came from a few different directions for me and my longtime girlfriend/lifepartner. First, I was born on July 31, 1968. They were walking on the Moon when I was just about to have my first birthday and my mom always talked about the two in concurrent sentences. I always felt "linked" somehow. Two, as a young male growing up in America, I KNEW that we would someday colonize the Moon and I would be one of those colonists(I grew up reading Heinlein). Third, as a military veteran, who has jumped out of many a plane as a paratrooper, I have only the greatest respect for the bravery of the early astronauts who paved the way for what we now seem almost blase about, sadly. Finally, for me, it was the backstory of these very strong women who supported their husbands' ambitions to get into space while trying to maintain/find their own identities. My girlfriend is a strong woman with her own business who admired the fact based portrayal of these strong women. We're both in agreement on this show. A Grand Slam home run.

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Thank you all for your very insightful responses. I am actually researching the potential for a TV series set in 1970s New York and based on the Dana McGarry series of novels by Lynn Steward about an ambitious young woman working in women's retail at B. Altman, the political and social issues of the time and the now iconic women (Diana Vreeland, Estee Lauder, Diane Von Furstenburg, Deborah Turbeville, Jackie Onassis, Rosamond Bernier) who have been woven into the plot.

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I'll save you time: there's zero potential. No network or cable channel is going to buy a series adapted from vanity press "novels." On the bright side, since the adaptation rights are worthless you can probably buy them yourself for next to nothing.

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Wow, you didn't even use birdshot. You went right to bullets.

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The girl-on-girl scenes.

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I was a year old when Neil Armstrong set foot on the moon and still remember watching other moon missions in class rooms at school. Even as a youngster who didn't fully understand what was happening, it was still exciting to see the fuzzy black and white live video of it happening.

What I think I like the most about this show is that it does a great job of portraying life at that time (although I wasn't quite born yet, it wasn't that vastly different 10 years later, and I'm old enough to understand how things were just a few years earlier). I'm a harsh critic, but I'm very impressed with how accurately they portray the time period in this show, unlike so many others.

As a man, I'm not sure that I connect with the women's rights facet as much as a woman might, but I still understand it and I agree with how it's portrayed here. Again, that facet has been portrayed very accurately in my opinion.

I never read the book, but I've enjoyed the show much more then I expected. And I hate to keep harping on the same subject, but the accurate portrayal of that period in time is critical in my appreciation of the show, because you can't really tell the story without it. Things are so vastly different today, and I'm not sure those who are much younger can understand, or fully appreciate, all the differences.

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I love it because:

- it's space related
- it's the 60s
- the hair, the fashion

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