Thanks for the post. :) I so enjoyed reading it! And I agree with you point on point.
There are worlds between what was socially acceptable in 1788 and what would and should be punished with a prison sentence in 2015.
Exactly. Women were treated much 'differently' (well, unfairly, often cruelly, etc., you name it) in those times and a convict woman in a far-off land would have had even less right. There are many things I love about this show... the realistic portrayal of class distinction, gender discrimination, grittiness and hardship of that era, the human drama, the love triangles/angst, etc. I find the show delivers on all fronts and is just highly entertaining!
Boarding school is not easy to begin with and he would have been abused by the other boys for the rest of his time there. His father might not have reacted well to his son showing "weakness" either.
Yes, Ross came from a military family of distinction... he was toughened up by circumstances at boarding school and his strict upbringing. I love that he maintains a super tough façade, but inside he has a warm heart and is not totally inflexible. I agree on another paragraph of your post about the deep care he has for his men. Noted the chance after chance he gave Sgt. Timmins (I have a feeling Sgt. Timmins is going to defy him again in the future, but Ross still won't have him killed). He acts proud, but he is brave, loyal and a true leader. But because he is the supposed antagonist in the show, but yet has all these qualities, it made his character so interesting and compelling to watch.
I may not agree with all his actions, but he is still my hero on the show.
On reflection, in the first episode when Elizabeth was flogged, he denied Private Buckley's offer to flog her because he realized that there clearly was bad blood between him and the woman.
How observant you are! I missed that! Yes, and Ross had expected Sgt. Timmins to need to mete out at most, 2 maybe 3 lashes, not the full 25 as he really believes Elizabeth's lover will step out once the lashings begin. Thinking back, we can tell that Major Ross is a romantic. If it had been HIS lover being flogged, no way would he just stand by silently and watch even if he will get hanged for it.
He is always saying one thing but his actions prove otherwise. Remember how upset he got when Kitty refused to talk to him all the while telling her how it did not matter at all to him that she remained silent?
I love how Ross used the 'soft', then when that fails, the 'hard' approach to get Kitty to talk to him. Of course, Kitty's silence mattered to him! Deep inside, he doesn't want Kitty to be angry or to hate him (too much). In his mind, how else was he to have her if not by 'force'. He is obsessed with her and she won't have him any other way.
In that scene when Kitty eventually starts talking, I went "wow" when she said, "... but occasionally...occasionally", and we see Ross' face, just how vulnerable and hopeful it was that Kitty might feel something for him. His heart was laid bare at that time... and then Kitty cut him with the word "pity" and his face went back to stone. Then he probably had angry s-- with her, and afterwards, still hurt, he said things like how he could have any women just as beautiful as she if he was in England, how he wouldn't look twice at someone of her station if not for the circumstances they were in, etc., etc. He lashed out because he was hurt and that was just his defense mechanism. If Kitty had at that moment, gone to him and held him or something, he would have knelt at her feet, begged and confessed how he truly felt towards her (ok, I know that is veering closely to fanfiction territory).
Now that Kitty actually tried to drown herself and Ross showed how much the thought of losing her terrified him, she holds the power. Has she even realized that yet?
Ross was so surprised and grateful when last episode Kitty actually shared a story of her own life with him. That was truly touching.
Couldn't agree more about Kitty holding the actual power. I don't think she realizes it yet. She knows the major fancies her some, but love doesn't come to her mind because she probably thinks the major incapable of feeling this emotion.
And yes, love that Kitty FINALLY opens up and shared a story of her childhood. One can tell it pleased and touched Ross deeply. Also shows that Kitty is not without feeling for Ross, and she is grateful he kept his word not to touch her. And after hearing his story, she understands him more now. I was also super happy that Kitty lied to MacDonald about not speaking to Ross. I think it's partly because she doesn't want him to get hurt/suspicious, but mostly because she felt it was a private, intimate moment between her and Ross (somehow more intimate than actually sleeping with him).
It also impressed me that no sooner had Kitty told him of her innocence he went to check the facts to see if that could actually be true.
Seems Ross really wants a future with Kitty. For him, it's not a short-term, just to bed her sort of arrangement. Another point showing he is essentially a good man: he desperately wants the girl he has fallen in love with at first sight to be "good" i.e. in this case, innocent of her crime. And now that he knows the truth, all the more he will not let her go or forget her.
Now that he practically begged her to spend time with him "fully clothed, no sex", he has kept his word, still gives her his food and he has not killed MacDonald despite knowing that he had contemplated killing him twice.
Love this development. It means that next time, Kitty would be the one initiating the kiss/seduction. I am dying to see that, and to see Ross happy for once.
Then there is the fact that Ross as the highest commanding officer apart from the Governor could of course have ordered Kitty to be at his service exclusively, without any trade of rank for her boyfriend or food for them. By the standards of the time, who would have cared about a convict woman?
Agreed. Ross is a gentleman, that is why he asked to share Kitty, and not forcefully take her from the private. And the food he gifts them, that is generosity because he needn't do it! Also, I think one reason he is ok with asking Kitty to sleep with him is because she is not exactly virginal/inexperienced but has been sleeping with MacDonald so he thinks "why not me", especially considering his superior position and what was deemed common/acceptable during that era. And MacDonald having any woman at all was because he (Ross) had allowed it in the first place.
Ross is in a position to present her case to the Governor (whether or not that would mean her freedom is out of his hands) and if she could get him to marry her, she would be set up for life.
If the above happens, I would be incredibly happy!
Sorry for being long-winded! I really can't get enough of Ross/Kitty. Sadly though, most reviews I googled paint nothing but a negative picture of Ross. Sigh.
And oh, any idea what is Ross's Christian name?
"What time is sunrise?"
"When I open this door."
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