You know, I dated a girl like that once. She knew about my faith right from the get-go, and she didn't pretend, at first, to be of the same faith as I, but did claim to be of some faith. Like the character Gwyneth, she did her research, and she's very intelligent, a quick study. Nevertheless, like the character Paul, I figured out that she was just faking it for me. Quite flattering, actually, albeit in a rather strange way. It was a very awkward, difficult ending for me.
Maybe that's why this little movie resonates so well with me. What if she had really had an epiphany at some point? (Well, then I wouldn't have met my wonderful wife!) She was truly a great girl in every other way, but ... I needed someone to share my faith with, and her "faking" it with me, nodding her head in agreement and smiling, but offering nothing would never have been enough. I needed a sounding board, not an echo chamber :)
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