Dump him...
After all she's giving up to move to Cleveland, family, friends, job and the dream wedding she always wanted he only half heartedly supports her efforts in planning their wedding. The few things she asked him to do he instead passes it off to his mother. He doesn't standup to his mother and support her. Nor does he seem to understand, make the time, and help out with what's inportantant to her; only wanting to "get through" it after all she's willing to do for him. She should have dumped him! He showed too little backbone too late.
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