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In the End **SPOILERS**


I have thought a lot about this film, and, in the end,
I think it came down to this:
Two blindly passionate people lived a life-long love relationship
while they 'ruined' the lives of the four people closest to them.
Maggie Smith, in the end, was the pivotal 'Evil One' in my book. She wanted and achieved
" her cake and to eat it too" at the tragic expense of others. She only saw her lover as 'the sweetest most thoughtful man in the world' because that's who he was -with HER. And she kept herself blind to the truths of the situation and the tragic consequences- the suicide of
the wife and,possibly, her own husband; her daughter's non-blooming, and kevin kline's failures and self hate. In effect, this story is what Age of Innocence would have become- IF Michelle Pfeiffer had run off with Daniel Day Lewis when they were young and in their passions.

At one point, Maggie Smith tells Kline that his father is NOT responsible for how his son's life turned out, and that Kevin needs to own up to his own responsibility for his life. When sh hears from Kevin the truth about the mother's death and his witnessing it, she collapses....and the issue remains unresolved. The revelation never leads to an apology on her part. But we can optimistically feel that it leads to a sort of delayed 'apology' on the part of her daughter- to the family of her daughter's lover, when she ends the cycle of betrayal begun by her mother and continued by herself.

What are your thoughts about this?






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Maggie Smith was appallingly selfish. but in a way i think she is right - kline and scott Thomas have let their parents mucky infidelities blight their own lives rather than getting on with living. i mean, why is Scott thomas still hanging around her mother, if she is so bitter about the way she treated her father? Why hasn't she got out and about and led her own life somewhere else?

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yes, totally agree.

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I think she doesn't really come to terms with the way her father treated her until Kevin expressing his pain to her, she finally is ok with thinking poorly of her father.

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Probably the Kristin Scott Thomas' character remains next to her mother because she is old and sick and she is her only daughter, and she needs someone to watch over her. But there are many stories about people that watch their parents only because that's what they must do, but if they could make a choice, probably they never will see them.

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