Lee and Andrew?
Apparently some of this series is fictionalized because I thought I read and heard that there was no evidence Lee and Andrew even knew one another, much less they were secret lovers.
There are certainly a lot of men on the 'down low,' though, so maybe that's what they were trying to address. Not all of them are 70 year old men, some are in their 20s and 30s. You can take a peek at Craigslist ads and see a lot of the men are much younger than middle-aged fools.