The Definition of "Asking For it"
It's not really a tragedy. If I play the lottery and don't win is it a tragedy? (Yes)
one of my recent fascinations is YouTube videos about cave diving and mountain climbing and near death (or actual death) stories. they are scary, anxiety inducing and interesting as hell.
obviously hindsight is 50/50 but it seems with some of these activities, esp cave diving, its not a question of if. its just a matter of when