VERY GOOD DOC. PLEASANTLY SURPRISED.


I love documentaries. I am 48. Have not really been into the Backstreet Boys for years.
Got to see this doc and was really happy with it. Some great stuff, some great background history and info. The argument between Nick & Brian was harsh and sad. Nick has a wickedly abusive mouth on him. Got to give this group respect. They are the real deal.
Kirk..in Montreal

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Nick has a wickedly abusive mouth on him.

And even with that he still chose his words relatively careful, for the heat of the moment. Saying Brian "doesn't necessarily sound as good" is an understatement, but he didn't want to sound to cruel so he put *necessarily* in there.
I am missing the resolution of this argument though. I'd liked to have watched how they work it out, both the anger at each other (and I think Nick was right not sweeping it under the rug, it's way too big of an issue)and the stage performances.

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I don't think there really is a firm resolution to it, as Brian's condition will be on-going. I think he is just continuing therapy and treatments.

I'm glad they addressed it in the movie though. I could tell something was up for awhile with Brian's voice. But I don't think Brian and the guys have to worry too much as far as the fans are concerned. We won't quit liking or supporting them because sometimes Brian's voice cracks. After 20 years, we are all in this together :)

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I don't think there really is a firm resolution to it, as Brian's condition will be on-going.

I meant more of a resolution for how to handle the stage performances in the long run, and it seems like they are working with it. For instance, Brian says way more often now "You sing!", and lets the crowd sing certain parts, and does more comical relief for distraction.
Totally agreed on the last part, I couldn't imagine the Boys without him, I miss his voice but I'll take him gladly with vocal issues as long as he's there. And there are times when he still sounds good, like Siberia on the last cruise - he actually sounded pretty awesome.

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I also loved this documentary. It showed another side to the Boys and showed their strength in overcoming their struggles. But that argument between Nick and Brian ended up traumatizing me terribly. And I didn't think it would. For some reason, it brought back some very bad memories of my parents arguing and cussing each other out when I was a child. And to think, these two are suppose to be close friends, here they're arguin like they're enemies. I think Nick should of been a little bit more understanding of Brian's voice issues. Just hearing the harshness and intense anger between Brian and Nick brings me back to when I was a child listening to my parents arguing exactly like this. There were times when even my own father yelled at me with the same intensity. It always made me feel bad and overwhelmed. Because of that, I suffer from anxiety and depression. I always hate it when I hear people arguing and screaming at each other. I'd just get up and leave. For the rest of the documentary after that scene, I felt like I was sad child again after the fighting would stop. It took me quite a while to recover.

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IIRC, Nick Carter had a lot of resentment because Brian was expecting everyone to be supportive of him when he was struggling, but he wouldn't show the same courtesy to Nick when he had his own problems.

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I don't think it had to do with support specifically. When Nick was talking to Brian calmly afterward and saying he believes Brian will get his voice back, that is his form of support. In Nick's book, he talks about the support his fellow BSB members have given him, so it's not like Brian hasn't given him support either. Nick was just talking about how he felt he had to get better for everyone else.

I think Nick was frustrated with the fact that they hadn't discussed Brian's voice issues. With the way it was edited, it looked like the initial argument ensued when they were arguing over the song Soldier. There was some animosity among the two of them at that moment in the boardroom. I don't know what Nick said right before Brian told him to "Shut the...... up", because it was cut out. That however, was when Nick lost it.

The problem is, like the girl in this thread, Nick also grew up in an environment where there was a lot of yelling and shouting. Perhaps his parents grew up in this type of environment as well. Sometimes those types of behaviours are learned and passed on.

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I don't know what Nick said right before Brian told him to "Shut the...... up", because it was cut out. That however, was when Nick lost it.

Yeah, Nick can't be told to shut up, he's too temperamental to back off, especially by someone who doesn't have his respect in that moment. he seems to have calmed down a bit as he got older though, and the sentence "don't talk to me that way" shows at least he's willing to *talk*. but he's been described as stubborn, which obviously got to Brian as he's the one who freaked out first.
however, Brian can obviously be snappy, and is competitive as well, so as Kevin said, they have a few buttheads in the group, so there you have them.

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