Lazy and selfish
I get the feeling this guy is lazy and selfish in bed. Despite getting the advice repeatedly, he never put any time into researching what pleases women sexually. It was all about his PENIS, not about what would make him an awesome lover. Did he learn about cunnilingus or how to find a woman's g-spot or how to use his fingers or toys to make a woman cum? No.
Lazy and selfish.