Muriel Donnelly (SPOILER WITHIN)


In the Movie is Muriel Donnelly dying or leaving the BEMH? she says something about not saying goodbye.

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I think that she does both - quits and then dies ...

There are four clues to this :

The first is when she comes out of the Doctor's Office, looking very downcast ...
I think that she's been told that she doesn't have long to live.

The second is in her voiceover narration, when she says "in the last months of my life I co-managed a Hotel ..."

The third is the whole concept of her long narrative letter ... this is in lieu of saying Goodbye

The fourth is that she leaves a letter in the office for Sonny to find - I think that she resigns, so that he can find a replacement for her in an orderly manner ...

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Yes, but isn't there the possibility that David Strathairn's character had more than friendship on his mind?

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Yes, but isn't there the possibility that David Strathairn's character had more than friendship on his mind?


That was the most surprising thing of all. I loved it, the way the script leaves it to the viewer to decide what will happen. She is definitely leaving the hotel at the end of the film. I wonder if her purplish colored clothes are meant to symbolize something, because purple is the one color not seen in either of the two Marigold films.

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It's very much implied that Muriel is suffering from something that gives her only a matter of time to live, as evidenced by her reaction when leaving the doctors and her mood throughout the film.

I was ready to shed some tears at the inevitable death scene, but I was quite glad it ended the way it did!

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I'm glad they didn't show deaf scene as well bec I don't really wanna cry ever since some hs kidz harassed me 4 cryin in titanic

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I wonder what was with Muriel since I got the impression she was dying a b d was resigned as assistant manager so sonny doesn't have to depend on her.

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I'm glad they didn't show deaf scene

Don't worry Mikey, I expect her hearing test scene will be in the deleted scenes on the DVD, so we'll get to see it but you can ignore it if you want.

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OMG - that's hysterical! ?

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I don't know why that question mark is there. It's supposed to be an emoticon of an ear.

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Wow. I left the movie theater confused about that aspect of the movie, and came here specifically to see if anyone would comment on it. But now, prompted by this thread, I'm relecting back over the movie and suddenly I can see a *ton* of clues pointing to the fact that she knew she was dying. Like all of her answers to the daily roll call, and the way she tells Sonny the he needs to be able to decide on his own, for the time when she won't be around.

I agree, preholidaypampering, I'm glad it ended without us having to see the actual death.

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One gathers that the doctor has given her bad news, but exactly what is never explained, nor why nothing is being done about it.

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Am I the only one who felt like she was planning to commit suicide that day, or at least soon after the wedding? There were several hints at this, and in the closing shot of the film she has this look of both relief and fear simultaneously. It seemed like she had been diagnosed with something fatal and painful, so she'd rather die with dignity on her own terms.

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Maybe the third film might have Muriel attempting to live out her final days among her friends at the hotel telling them that she is dying but wants to go her on her terms and enjoy the time that she has left.

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to me it was obvious she was dying considering how she looked when coming out of the doctors office. but i wonder why she would leave rather than die in a place she enjoyed being in?


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I suspected that she had been having something in her tea each day and that on her final day it was going to be a very strong dose. It was the way she said "thank you" and "goodbye" so gently to the maid. Also the reason the reason the maid spilt the tea when the Inspector (lady) asked if she could have some. Muriel would definitely want to die with dignity and on her own terms.



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Yes! When I look back, it definitely fits!

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So you mean the maid was in on it? Interesting theory, but would she (the maid) really have told noone about this?

Plus, if she would kill herself, why not just take the strong dose right away? Why would she take a little bit each day?

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If she were taking doses of something like barbiturates or opiates, it often helps to get a good amount of it built up in your system first. If you take one massive overdose at once, sometimes the doctors can give you something to save you, or absorb the drug, or otherwise get it out of your system. But if you've built it up in your system already over time, then give it one final "pushover" dose, it's harder for the emergency doctors to do anything to save you. You've already got too much of the drug in your system. I've heard this used as a plot device in many novels, anyway.

Tea seems like an odd delivery method for this kind of drug, though. Pills are so much easier ... plus, Muriel makes such a big fuss about her tea being just right, I find it hard to believe she'd see fit to adulterate the taste of her morning tea with drugs.

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I kept feeling like Muriel was planning on ending her life. The end scene of her sitting on the wall of the building had me expecting her to just fall back and plunge to her death. it was very odd for her to sit there and the camera does a wide shot which is when I thought she was going fall back.

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