Why pair up Bill Nighy with Judi Dench


Just how old is Bill Nighy's Douglas supposed to be? In the movie Judi Dench says she is 79 (which is close as she is 80), and although she is aging well and looks good for her age, it is so obvious Bill Nighy (age 66) is so much younger. Would they pair Richard Gere (who is the same age as Bill Nighy) with Judi Dench? Maybe I'm being too picky.

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My thoughts exactly. Most all of the men are in their 60's and all the women pushing 80. I thought the casting was all wrong and sadly wasted.

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all the women pushing 80


With just two exceptions all the women were also in their 60's and so with your standard then most of the men were pushing 80 also. Judi Dench and Maggie Smith are both 80 now, but all the other women were under 70. Celia Imrie is 62, so in the first movie she wasn't even 60 yet. Lillete Dubey is 60 making her the youngest of the older cast, and the second oldest behind the Dames is Ronald Pickup at 74.

I guess I can't be too irritated with you. Older men have been continually paired with younger women in movies, so seeing through that sort of lens women seem to always appear older than they are, especially around men of similar ages. But I gotta say the age gap between Dench and Nighy is 15 years, but age becomes less of an issue the older you get. And frankly, in my opinion and no offense to Nighy intended, Judi Dench at 80 is much more attractive that Bill Nighy at 65.

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How silly and oldfashionedly sexist this is. And inaccurate, look up the actors DOB's on IMdB why don't you!

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I did think that Judi Dench's character was meant to be a few years younger than that. I was surprised when she said she was 79. In the original novel, evelyn is only 72, only a few years older than Douglas. Not such a large gap.

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I hate to be "that woman", but they've been doing the same thing with older men and younger women in movies (and life) for decades. One instance in one movie shouldn't be that big of a deal.

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maybe we should just enjoy that judi dench gets a toyboy for once. i did. it made a nice change


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Totally agree!

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I didn't notice the age, but the lack of any character development since the first film.

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You're being too picky. Life is like that. And they're marvelous together !!!! Apparently " Cougar" is not in your vocabulary. ;)

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my mother (aged 82) is married to a man 12 years her junior and only 12 years older than me (her eldest child)....and they have just celebrated their 21st wedding anniversary. So whatever your thoughts may be on older women/younger men type relationships, I am here to tell you that they happen and they last very successfully. Maybe you could try to rethink your prejudices...who knows, love may happen to you too

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yeah, but he's in India. he could probably get some lovely young Indian woman - someone lower caste who wants to better herself perhaps.

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Douglas had an age-appropriate wife in the first film, and he was obviously pleased to meet someone who loved life and adventure, regardless of her age.

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