Tony is a jerk

You're going to have to do way better than that to trigger me. You're barely even trying.

I think he's a very nice guy.

How is he a jerk exactly? He is a very kind and genuine guy.

I think Tony is super sweet; not a jerk at all.

Yeah, what's his deal with politely courting Eilis? Why in the world does he resort to scummy tactics like getting to know her better and establishing a romantic connection? Where does get off wanting to love, honor and support her in sickness or in health? The nerve of those dago wops, I swear!