The old child abuse cliche..
Forgive me for sounding insensitive.. But this movie got me thinking about society's current concept of "child abuse." Our society has really flipped itself on it's head with this child abuse hysteria, and I just feel the need to rant.
Just a hundred years ago kids were beaten, whipped, shamed in front of their peers, physically punished in school, shouted at, left at home for weeks at a time.. Some kids even *GASP* had sexual experiences before they were ready! And guess what? They actually turned out pretty good. My grandparents used to tell me stories about what their parents used to consider good discipline, and about the terrible things that happened to them growing up. It was downright scary!
The point is, children are sooo much more resilient and tough than we give them credit for. They HAVE TO BE. Because no parent is perfect, we all screw up one way or another and our kids need to be capable of taking the blows and abuse and learning to sort it out later.
Society has a huge role in this. A hundred years ago childhood wasn't made of porcelain, something valuable that breaks easily and is essentially irreparable. Instead, childhood was treated for what it is: A PATH TO ADULTHOOD. You were supposed to grow up, man up, toughen up, learn about life, and deal with it as it came. They were encouraged to grow up faster. Sure kids had it tough, but in response they grew up tough.
Today the sentiment is very different.. it's like every child is soooo exceptionally delicate... We can't even RISK letting them have a bad experience.. it might scar them forever! Childhood is sacred! We can't take their CHILDHOOD from them!
I'm not saying child abuse is good OR bad, all I'm saying is that we make such a huge damn deal out of it that sometimes we can't even adequately define "abuse". Can children be permanently scarred by abuse? Sure. But frankly I don't think such instances are as prevalent as we believe them to be. I can tell you that teaching children to live as victims is not helping at all, teaching them to deal with it and move on is a better answer.
So we seem to get a lot of these movies based on the concept of "the broken child." It gets pretty cheesy, and I think that 100 years from now people will look back at these films and laugh a little bit at how paranoid we were.
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