The Ending


SPOILER ALERT: I liked this movie, but I don't understand the decision not to get the two leads together in the end. Is a rule of indie movies that you can't have a happy ending? A movie doesn't have to end happily for me to like it, but I didn't see why the two decided not to continue their relationship. Eric did do something stupid, but Rachel did seem to forgive him. So why couldn't they move on together. Elsewhere I read some viewers see the conclusion as open-ended, but I didn't see it that way.

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I didn't understand it completely either. My best guess is that the freak out after their kiss combined with Eric misleading her caused Rachel to realize that she wasn't completely ready to get into an actual romantic relationship. However, I think her interactions with Eric did help her move on with her life somewhat, got her out of the house more, and it was certainly a push in the right direction. I suppose the ending could be considered open-ended if we believe that maybe someday down the road she'll be ready to be with someone again... I think her smile at the end was evidence that she was proud of herself for making progress.

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I kind of liked the open ending.

But there were hints at their healing. He was no longer running endlessly along the water.

She was no longer sitting all the time on the bench with the plaque memorializing her husband, where she used to sit all of the time grieving.

He moved back downtown where he really wanted to be, instead of living uptown just because Gretchen lived there. He got his old authentic life back.

We could also interpret that the reason she's no longer sitting on the bench in Sag Harbor is because she's moved out of the family house they had together, cleaned out the closet of his clothes, and moved back into Manhattan.

When we last see them, they still had work to do--and the nod to each other at the taxi door seemed to go either way. It could have been thanks...we helped each other now we move on.

Or it could have meant we've come a long way together and we're almost moving on, but we're both not quite there yet to get together.

Let's face it...she was still wearing her wedding ring and had a closet full of her husband's clothes just the way he left them when he walked out of the house and died.

If Eric has any sense, he knows all that has to change before she's ready.

So, were they giving each other some more space they both needed for awhile? Or just acknowledging they'd helped each other in the interim and they'd go on now to find new relationships?

I like the ambiguity...

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Agreed, I like the ambiguity. It's a major thing to get over a young husband dying suddenly and tragically. She has no children to focus on, she just is grieving. He helped her think about moving on. And she will, when she's ready (and likely with him since he understands her pain a bit and is sensitive to it). Plus, he can't just jump into bed with her right away since her friggin dad knows he's got some things to take care of first, ifyaknowwhatimean

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Honestly, after seeing the entire movie. I don't really think its OVER. I agree with everyone, they both still have work to do in their healing, but their relationship definitely helped both of them differently. I do think that at least at the end of all this, they are on good terms and who knows...again this is the hopeless romantic talking haha!!

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