Love it!

There's only a very tiny percentage of the population that practices polyamory, most people are deadset against it because they consider it a devaluation and violation of the principles of a relationship. My personal philosophy is that in order for a person to be truly happy they should be themselves 24/7 without receiving any criticism or judgment from others. If my boyfriend was polyamorous naturally (not by choice), I would encourage him to be himself. Polyamory as a choice is dangerous, but as a necessity for one's well-being, it is healthy.

Yes, it is a small community but the Internet has made it much easier to find like minded people. But what I found when entering the lifestyle is how much jealousy runs rampant. It made me crazy. I had dated a man and then had to move across country. That is the inmy reason we stopped dating. He later started dating someone new who was a part of a couple. She was so jealous of me. Whenever I would mention something, even innocent about my ex, she would go nuts. Kicked me off the forum board (she was in charge). She was not the only jealousy I witnessed. But the June I personally experienced. There is zero room in polyamory for jealousy of ex relationships.