11 years old?


WTF... He was dating one of those girls when she was 11 and he was around 18. That is just nuts.

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16 is "around 18"?

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I don't think he was dating her. Sounds like he crossed the line with her, once. But he took her innocence and kept going. Seems he did that with every girl. Innocence here can be their virginity, their dreams, their passion, their confidence. He's like a vampire feeding on the way they look at him.

If we can save humanity, we become the caretakers of the world

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very good point about innocence lost
and no matter if it was illegal or not. he crossed a line with her, that is what counts.

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He was 16. That's still a kid. they kissed. It was no where near as big of deal as she made it into. I thought that storyline was insane.

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It was the night she was turning 12, and he was 16. Still creepy in my opinion, but I wanted to clarify the ages.

While creepy, it wouldn’t have been illegal, unless the age of consent there was 16. (Though even then, since it was a kiss and an ass grab and not an actual sex act, I don’t know if it would count.)

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Its still gross and a 16 year old would know it was wrong to go after a kid. Pedo bear as a teen. And he won't even take responsibility for it. He took advantage of a child! Disgusting.

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Oh my Satan. You have to be an American. He fingered a girl, she loved it, she wanted to see him the day after but discovered he had already left. No harm was done, he got a wet finger, she got her first sexual experience with a guy she thought was hot.

It's just sex. It's better than killing each other.

Americans are soooo awkward when it comes to sex. An 8 year old watching war movies, no problem. A nipple on the telly, OOOH! SCANDAL!

There's nothing wrong with enjoying our bodies.

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Wow... I guess wherever you're from rape is okay. It's not about seeing nudity its the fact that she was a CHILD and he was old enough to know better. Clearly it wasn't okay since she is still upset about it years later.

Would you want your daughter to be like 10 and get fingered by a guy who is 18? That's perfectly fine with you? That was the whole point. You can "enjoy" your bodies when you're out of elementary.

I love how you assume it's an American thing. It's not about being uptight. It's about the right kind of sexual experiences its the ones that are lawfully wrong that aren't okay! That was the point. The one you clearly missed.

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It kind of is about being American though. In most countries a 16 year old and 12 year old wouldn't be unlawful, especially not a kiss and a little butt grab, if consensual. I don't remember any mention of fingering? The fact she was upset about it was probably more to do with the culture telling her it was wrong and she should be upset, than the act itself. She also seemed more upset by the fact he ran off after something that was so important to her.

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The way she made it sound it seem like that was her first time being touched or kissed by a guy and then he disappeared. It is a big deal when your a young and innocent 11/12

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