Favoritism?
Do you guys thinks she favors KJ over her daughters?
"Well that ship has sailed"
A new baby always gets the most attention. KJ is her first boy, so for the time yeah he's her fave, but I don't see anything wrong with it.
shareIt's ALWAYS wrong to favor one child. Not that I think she does really.
shareBut it exists and it doesn't necessarily screw people up knowing that one sibling is given favor over another. It just makes the other child assert them-self more. Some people are just screwed up, you can give a child as much and as equal love and support you give another child, but they will still be a mess. I really dislike all the superiority and condition placed on humans.
shareFavoring a child DOES screw up ALL the kids. It messes up the ones not favored because they don't feel loved or cherished and because they resent, even hate, the favored child. These kids also learn not to trust because if you can't trust your own parents, who can you trust?
Favoritism also harms the favored child because that child feels the resentment of the other siblings and is burdened by the unfair love of the parents. It's not a good situation for anyone in the family.
I never denied it existed, but to say it "doesn't necessarily screw people up," is just not true. Favoritism in a family is always detrimental.
So you must know every child in the world then?
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