'GET YO' LIFE! HAVE SEVERAL!'
Tamar, take your/her own advice before Vince gets a clue and FINALLY leaves you by either walking out the door or (God forbid) suffering a stroke! Too much!
Don't eva let nobody tell you you ain't strong enough
Some of that is his own fault. Tamar is a drama queen but Vince is just mean.
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IndiaArieTESTIMONY VOL 2:LOVE&POLITICS
He is mean at times! Like the most recent episode when she asked what happened in regards to the phone call he got, he got all huffy puffy "I don't wanna talk about it!". All she did was ask. She did get a bit of a smart mouth afterwards but that was as a result of him getting mad for no reason.
Also I think he wants to be like his parents. He once stated that his parents never fought and he can't understand why they fight all the time. He has to realize that all relationships are different and he's not going to be exactly like his parents.
I did think his resentment over Tamar leaving his side at the hospital to visit a friend went too far. First because he lied about it at the first therapy session by saying it didn't bother him and second because it wasn't like she wasn't there for him at all. She said she was there so much the doctors would make her leave and she was there when he woke up, but she'd gone through hell with him and was in need of a break.
Don't eva let nobody tell you you ain't strong enough
Exactly. She needed a break to get herself right and he mad she left him for four hours. Its not like she left him for days at a time. And I didnt like the way he acted when she made him mad and she was crying because of something he said that wasn't even right and then he wasn't even worried about the fact that his wife is sitting there crying.
shareBut he said why it upset him when they were in Hawaii. He said that he was afraid, maybe her being there with him was the only thing keeping him going through the whole ordeal. It seems like she's all he has and that the death of his parents (as well as other past traumas) have left some pretty deep scars on him emotionally/mentally and he hasn't really dealt with any of it. Her leaving him must have triggered some of his feelings of fear, loss, abandonment, etc. that he holds in.
Also we don't really know what all went down at the hospital except for what we've been told and shown on BFV and their show. So it's a bit unfair to make him the villian in all of this.
Its not fair to make her the villian either. She can't take care of him if she can't take care of herself.
shareyup sometimes vince acts like a biotech. point. blank. period. That *beep* would get on my nerves....
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