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are western women really so accustomed to take initiative?


sometimes, i think it's better for women not so active even if you have a crush on someone.

if it's too brightly straightforward, then it's not beautiful.

things spoiled.

i think women are better off being women, and men being men.

when they are highly alike, there is no sex any more.


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That's what I thought, the way they portray the western woman, they're too open minded. And the western boys are so into blondie.

They even had sex before dating for a few months first? Being a bit conservative is better for a woman.

I solemnly swear that I'm up to no good.

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It's a good thing women have guys like you all around to tell them how they should handle their own sexuality.

Stupidity is the hallmark of humanity, the torch that is passed down throughout the ages.

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Although Constance's post was meant as mockery to the OP, I will take what he wrote as good advice despite his original intent. Today's girls probably need some guidance that's a bit more substance filled than today's "modern" philosophy of sexuality.

2013 Most Anticipated - Stoker, The Spectacular Now, Frances Ha

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Today's girls need some guidance on how to behave sexually... But damn, those guys, they should just continue to screw anything that isn't nailed down. That's cool.

The double standard has always been that guys get away with it while the girls, however, have to bear the shame of being a slut.

The negative reaction is against women having the same sexual freedom as men. So, I am sorry I don't hop on board the control-freak train with the rest of you for the purposes of providing "substance-filled-sexual philosophy" that only half the population need bother being concerned with.

Stupidity is the hallmark of humanity, the torch that is passed down throughout the ages.

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So you're a slut? Gotcha.

CG gore is the worst thing that has ever happened to the horror genre.

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You're so right! Women should realize that if they're open with their sexuality and their interest in men that they're being too transparent and the guy will get bored. Girls who are honest never get chosen in the end.

But wait a minute. Who did Scott choose in the end? Oh, that's right. He chose the "brightly straightforward" girl who had "spoiled" herself.

Hm. Must have been a fluke.

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It's indicated that they had feelings for one another before the stalker came into the picture, so Scott was already leaning towards her as a potential girlfriend before Jules took control.

2013 Most Anticipated - Stoker, The Spectacular Now, Frances Ha

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Well in the case of young men, they may be completely oblivious to the fact a girl has a crush on them. I know I was at that age. There were plenty of girls looking back who were blatantly into me, but I was just very shy. If they had actually come out and said hey lets go on a date I would have been sure of their intentions. I don't think there is anything wrong at all with women actively pursuing what they want. The fact is that they do this anyway by creating situations to meet the guy they are interested in. My fiancé was a stalker (joking) who decided she wanted me and she made an excuse to talk to me. Have you got the time? That was in 1997 and the rest is history.

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So.... Let me get this straight. You met your fiance and 18 years later she's just your fiance?... Sorry for being a dick.

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well this movie was created by a bunch of indians so you can take that whole western argument and shove it up your azz.

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