Interesting response, markaisan. In my first year I was put in a flat with 4 other girls and I never socialised with them either, but we didn't ignore each other. They were always gong to clubs wearing matching nurse outfits or whatever and I really couldn't be doing with any of it. They must have thought I was either a snob or just really uncool, probably both, can't say I was bothered in any case. But they were nice enough people and I didn't hide from them in the flat. Why did you hide away, was it the experience of being at uni that you found overwhelming?
There was a girl in the year below me at school who wore pigtails and calf-length skirts and big glasses, walkied around on her own, looked like the biggest cliche of a "loser". A couple of years later she walked into a pub I was working in, transformed into the most stunning girl with gorgeous clothes and hair, older boyfriend, the lot. We got chatting about school (I had never spoken to her whilst there) and she told me how she hated it so much, the cliquey groups etc. that she purposefully made herself look as nerdy and weird as possible, basically just to rebel against the cool girls. Is this related to what the invisible man is doing? It seems a bit extreme since the group is a real mixture of characters anyway, all with their own insecurities, couldn't he have made an effort to get along with at least one of them? Why live in that kind of shared house?
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