Poeboy, good for you! (I mean that honestly / not sarcastically)
Good for you that you stood up for yourself
School bullies typically are just junior versions of people who grow up to be "serious" predators (people who rape/rob/kill, etc)
But they are still predators, its just their skills and abilities aren't as well developed yet.
And there is ONE thing that defines almost all predators, of any age, is that they always go after the weak. Just like lions or wolves chasing a herd of animals, they dont go after the fastest, strongest, they try to pick out the ones who are the slow, weak, easiest to pick off. The "easy kill"
So really, you just need to make sure you aren't seen as being an easy target. They (the predators) are often lazy, they dont want to work too hard.
Lots of times, especially in school, just standing up to a bully is enough. But, sometimes it isn't, and y'know what?? most people dont realize that if you do get in a fight with a bully, you dont have to win, you just have to put up a good fight. Hell, you can get your butt kicked pretty good, and as long as you "take it like a man" and dont cry about it, no one thinks that badly of you.
And even if you do get you get your butt kicked, if the next time you see that bully you stand your ground, that alone tends to earn a lot of respect with that bully not to mention everyone else
Now, I know this doesn't have a whole lot to do with this movie necessarily, i just wanted to respond to that post
Also, I know things can become different when you talk about bullies that have knives, guns, etc, where the possibility of death / permanent harm is quite high. But still, What i've learned is, if someone pushes on you, push back a little. if they push harder, you do same
If they push and you fall over..... well, they will just keep pushing and pushing and pushing.........
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