Fary is a bi*ch of Nadia's making.
Fary trashes Brandon at every opportunity BECAUSE Nadia NEVER makes her PAY A PRICE for doing so.
When Fary brought that Brazilian tool to lunch, as soon as it was obvious that Fary was trying to fix Nadia up with him, Nadia should have politely said "I'm sorry Fernando, this lunch was to be with my mother and myself. I'm in a committed relationship, I'm uncomfortable with this, and so I'm leaving. It's not your fault but my mother's fault". Nadia should then have told Fary "This STUNT was disrespectful to me and to Brandon, I'm tired of it and it stops NOW. I don't want to see or hear from you for two weeks. The next time you disrespect myself, or Brandon, it will be 3 weeks before I speak to you again, and the next time after it will be 4 weeks". Nadia should have then just stood up and walked out.
Until Fary has a price to pay for her miserable behavior, she will continue - this seems pretty obvious. If Fary gets a few weeks/months in the "penalty box" (frozen out of Nadia's life), she'll learn. Fary's rude, crude, intolerant, controlling and abusive but I've seen no evidence she's stupid, just a bi*ch.
This is a bit of a crude analogy I admit, but Fary is like an untrained dog that craps in the house... it's not the dog's fault, but the owner's fault that he/she hasn't trained it. Fary has not learned that some behavior is unacceptable. I'll bet she's been rude and unthinking all her life.
I'm beginning to feel a lot more sympathetic towards Brandon. He is with a woman he really cares about, but one seemingly unwilling or unable to apply a meaningful remedy to the abuse her toxic harpy of a mother dumps on him at their every meeting.
Nadia needs to grow up and needs to STAND up.
Flame away.