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I know the 1st year of marriage is supposed to be the hardest


but I really think that Hayley is throwing in the towel way too early. Even though Kirby seems a bit clueless at times, I don't think that he has a bad heart or that he was trying to hurt Hayley. Hopefully, by her walking away for a little while, she will gain some perspective and try to give it another go with Kirby.

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I think their young and are still trying to figure out who they are both an individuals, adults and as husband and wife..I believe they can make it work but only if they are more open and honest about everything and talk about what they want from their marriage..She needs to come clean about her "affair" too, no matter what the out come is..
I can't believe what Blake told Krista about her loving no one but herself!..I would have punched him!..I love Krista, I think she is loving, fun and cares very deeply about others. But her job and Mel make it difficult for her to open up to people and show her emotions.I think Bobby is the only person who she has ever let see both sides of her. And feel that is why even after ten years of being apart they still know each other better anyone else!
I also think Dev is right about him and Astrid.

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They got married before they even knew if they were right for each other. They should never have gotten married in the first place, they are obviously not looking for the same things in life and they are not at the same place in their relationship. They probably shouldn't wait for 10 years and kids to decide they made a mistake.

For every lie I unlearn I learn something new - Ani Difranco

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"In the north, everyone gets a second chance."

Hopefully they will heed those wise words of Mel Ivarson.

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