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Of mental illness? My dad is bipolar so as you can imagine I was looking forward to this for awhile now. I loved Silver Linings but that film might have been even less commercialized than this one. It really bothered me how his struggle with bipolar was illustrated as this constant, ongoing inconvenience for him instead of the brutal ups-and-downs the disease actually carries. In the first 5 minutes I thought this film was finally the one I was searching for; a definitive film of what it means to be bipolar. The rest of it fell far short.

He was in this constant state of hyper-activity and for an outside viewer this is the type of rhetoric that furthers the stigma of mental illness. Bipolar people do not act like that all the time. The way I see it there are three stages, or states to being bipolar:

Yourself -- The person we know and love. This is who you are normally. There is no possible way to tell someone is bipolar most of the time. They are simply who they are. In the movie this line was blurred to extinction; is he really this energized all the time? Is that who he is or is the disorder at work?

Depression -- The lowest possible lows anybody can physically feel. Life is meaningless, you are worthless, there is nothing to live for. Days fly by. It all seems so pointless and cruel that you don't want to do anything.

Mania -- This is the potentially dangerous or potentially awakened state. You could be up nights absorbed in something remarkably creative, doing anything you love. You feel on top of the world. Anything and everything is possible. Some attain moments of clarity, glimpses of enlightenment. On the other side, this freeing of the self can get mixed with hazardous thought. You can destroy, fight, harass anything in sight. This is where some people lose their jobs and spouses. Where relationships are tested. Where you aren't in control of yourself any more.

Sadly the film had a one-note character instead of the myriad feelings and complexity that those who have it go through.

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I'm disappointed to here that I've been looking forward to seeing this. I've seen tge trailer. And thought. Wow it's close. Being bi polar myself and the scares to prove it I was hoping to see this. I probably will any way. I've seen silver linings. And loved it. And it's a kind if funny ? And enjoyed that too. In a weird sort of way. I'm constantly looking for a movie that shows bi polar for what it is excessive mood swings erratic behaviour and passionate and angry. I guess I look for these films. In a weird sort of relating way.

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Even though it isn't bipolar, Awakenings is a great one with De Niro. This year's Welcome to Me was a warming sight, though it was about Borderline Personality. Still a very good watch and faithful to the disorder. This one might be worth checking out, just don't expect it to be THE film about bipolar as I was hoping it was. As an aspiring filmmaker maybe I'll grow up to make it, lol. It's my one great ambition in life.

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It was good. A friend joined me, they may be in the area of this affliction, what was emphasized was Cameron's(Cam)anger over-flows, then later, the disorganization of the home, and other routines, affecting his two daughters, etc.
It has lighthearted moments. The girls, Amelia and Faith Stuart were very good. The Mother, Maggie, was really good also.

I give it 3 out of 5 Stars.



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I saw the trailer today and was first I'd heard of it. I am bipolar so it caught my attention. If all we see are the wacky mapcap moments then it's no service to those who face mental illness challenges or those who live them.

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You should probably check it out, I'd be interested to hear what you think.

What might have been the reason for the CONSTANT wacky madcap moments, one after the other, is that he stops taking his medication early on in the film. That might have been why he was in that state of near-mania the whole time. But I don't know, I think it really should've been true to the disorder's entire spectrum rather than playing it so lightly.

This is a true story about the girl's experience with her father though, so perhaps I'm being too harsh, and maybe some cases aren't as bad as others? For me, my earliest memories of my father are of him throwing my against a wall and screaming. I love him to death though, and feel deeply for what he goes through. I was hoping I'd get more of his experience from this movie than what was shown.

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While I loved the movie and thought that Mark Ruffalo did an amazing job with the role...I was sort of wondering if people who are bi polar are always like this? They kept the movie light hearted with a few emotional bits but I suppose they should've thrown in a couple of depressive episode scenes as well. This just seemed to be the story of someone super hyper, eccentric and not in control of his emotions. I haven't had any interaction with anyone bi-polar but I didn't imagine it to be quite like this from all I've heard. The movie is made by someone who based it on her own life story so maybe this was what his dad was actually like?

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Nope, I loved it!

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I'm with you. I loved it. I appreciated the specificity of the characters and that these felt like real, complex people. The familiar stereotypes with Black characters were thankfully absent. I'm not an expert on bipolar disorder, so if the depiction was inaccurate I didn't know. Since much of the story is from the girls' POV, perhaps this is how they remembered their father within that time period. Or, perhaps the events that felt most conducive to dramatization were those when the father was more wild. Or maybe there was a scene or sequence wherein the father was at a low point, but it didn't work and was cut. For me, not seeing the low definitely didn't ruin the story for me. I felt that the story did have an arc. The last scene seemed to be illustrating that the girls were learning how to deal with their father while also having the confidence to make their own lives a priority. They were very worried about him and his illness and his wellbeing. In that last scene, they showed that they still adored their dad, crazy flaws and all, but they knew they had to let him be his crazy self and not feel guilty that they couldn't be responsible for him or his wellbeing. He needed to learn that he couldn't include them in his every whim and they were beginning to set that boundary. Loved it.

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It was a very poor depiction of Bipolar Disorder, I agree.
Even more disappointing, is the continued stigma and ignorance of this illness, as much as most other Personality Disorders as well.

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I don't care if it was accurately depicted or not. I don't exactly how it should be, and the movie has sold it to me. If I wanted accuracy, I'd go watch a documentary, which is what I recommend for those complaining to do as well. Also, remember that no illness affects all the people same, especially when it's a mental illness. His personality and life situation could've had a big effect on the behavior, etc.

This film was great! Awesome directing, funny and interesting story, amazing acting by Mark, Zoe and the girls.

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True. You should watch a documentary is you want 100 accuracy. Even then people will tell you they got it all wrong because it doesn't fit their personal diagnosis which might be wrong in the first place.

I leave it up to the French to tell people that life is total *beep* and then you die in the gutter in the rain as people step over you.

In the meantime, I think I will watch this movie even though I don't have this problem or anything resembling it.




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The thing is, we cannot say that it's not accurate in its depiction of bipolar disorder especially since this is supposed to be based on a true story.

Bipolar disorder cannot be summed up in one movie because it's different with every individual who has it. Other people also perceive it differently and we can have differences in our experiences interacting with them.

Every person has his/her own story so we should not expect to know every aspect of the illness in watching one story alone. Though some scenes may have been romanticized/exaggerated for creative purposes, this is still their story. Who are we to judge if its accurate or not?

As for me, I enjoyed this movie even though it is very different from my own experience living with someone who is bipolar.

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Agree, thought it didn't represent manic depressive well at all. I also hated silver linings, more than this one even.

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