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SPOILERS sorta. I enjoy it, but but but...


Yes, the acting is splendid. Yes, the characters are interesting to watch (if you’re not in the mood for a bang-bang-explosion-oiled-bodies kinda flick). Yes, the cinematography is beautiful.

But it seems that the plot has forgotten an extremely important point, which makes the suspension of disbelief just too big. Not to mention a lot of other improbables, like a fugitive cleaning gutters in full view of endlessly curious neighbours, but I speak of a broader issue here

The big note for me is what you all too often see in movies. Apparently someone has forgotten to see exactly how women are like, well, people. As in, you would NOT give a threatening total stranger a ride, especially if you’re a disturbed single woman, probably unable to defend yourself, with a young teenager in the house and said stranger appears strong, grim, and is bleeding. NO WOMAN WOULD EVER DO THIS. Even if coerced into the car, you would definitely try to find a way to signal to your neighbours in the small town – where everyone knows your car, who you are, and hmmm, why are you driving with a total stranger in the back seat with your son??? You do NOT (or, it is EXTREMELY RARE to) fall in love with the person who may be threatening yourself and your child, especially after said person has tied you up in a rather scary way. No women ANYwhere in the world is foolish enough to trust someone like that right off the bat. NO woman, ANYwhere. (We NEVER know if a man – even one known to us – will suddenly become abusive or try to molest us. Go on, ask any woman you know. You could call it “Schrodinger’s rapist.”) And though I’m not a parent, I would surmise that no parent would trust said threatening total stranger to “bond” with their child.

Do they think women are idiots, droids, or what? (I know, I know, the book’s author is a woman, but ya don’t have to be a man to be submerged in patriarchy.)

Oh, and lest we forget: Adele has come completely apart because she can’t have another child. Wait... what? Her ENTIRE PERSONHOOD is fuhkaked because she can’t be a 2-time mother? Are women THAT one-dimensional, that if you can’t be a parent, your life is worthless? Really??

So if I can just shove all these issues under the rug, I can enjoy the film because it’s lovely. But that’s one huge hump of an elephant under that there rug.

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"can’t, it’s, I’m, “Schrodinger’s" etc
I wonder how you have set your keyboard, in what language I mean..


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It was a formatting problem when IMDB were bringing the new emoticons in (see my signature, which I haven't bothered to change, since then).






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Oh, and lest we forget: Adele has come completely apart because she can’t have another child. Wait... what? Her ENTIRE PERSONHOOD is fuhkaked because she can’t be a 2-time mother? Are women THAT one-dimensional, that if you can’t be a parent, your life is worthless? Really??


I agree with you that Adele was portrayed as one-dimensional. However, I could understand how she could become unhinged after undergoing at least two or three miscarriages and then delivering a still-born child, not to mention having said still-born child cleaned, clothed and brought to her by the nurse. That scenario rang very false--what nurse would bring a dead child to the mother as if it were alive??

The film felt like it was set in the 50's rather than the 80's, with its narrow view of women and small-town life.







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Her ENTIRE PERSONHOOD is fuhkaked because she can’t be a 2-time mother? Are women THAT one-dimensional, that if you can’t be a parent, your life is worthless? Really??


There are some women that are like that. How do you think one of the Duggar girls would react if something similar happened to her?

We give a lot attention of postpartum depression now, but we haven't always recognized and there are still some people that it isn't real. I am sure in addition to being upset over losing a baby the same hormonal changes that are believed to one of the reasons that causes postpartum depression are also there when someone miscarries or has a stillbirth. She didn't get any help with dealing with her grief or depression.

Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak out and remove all doubt.

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I agree with you in part, but adele didn't "fall apart" as you put it just because she couldn't have another child, it was after having 3 miscarriages and a stillborn that she lost touch with reality, also her douche bag of an ex husband did nothing to help her instead he ran off with his secretary and left her to deal with her issues alone, had he got her the help she needed at the time she would not have ended up the way she was.

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I agree, but people will try to explain it away because it's 'romantic' (only if they look like Josh Brolin, mind!  )






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