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What - ... - the hell???? SPOILERS ahead


I just saw this and it left me not wanting to watch any movie ever again.


So this 16 year old girl has a boyfriend, then gets raped by another guy, then gets another boyfriend cause her boyfriend moved away. Does nothing about the rape, her boyfriend disappears and she then ends up working at a restaurant in the middle of nowhere with the father of her mom's high-school boyfriend. gee. the end.

I seriously want these 2 hours back!
There's no resolve to anything...this is the reason why people CHOOSE to go to Hollywood's stupid blockbusters, it's because they know they won't see something like this.

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I actually didn't find the plot that unrealistic. I don't see how it's strange that a 16-year-old girl fools around with her best friend, and then when he moves away, she just finds another boyfriend. Lucy did like her second boyfriend, and he logically disappeared after having that argument with her dad, and his not wanting to repeat that whole scene. Many girls that age have more than one boyfriend, and the relationships might not last too long.

The rape is not really related to the boyfriend situation. She was drugged and drunk, and she was raped by a guy she never really liked. There are hundreds, if not thousands, of rapes that go unreported each year so I don't find it at all surprising she didn't report it or do anything about it. She probably didn't want to trouble her family, didn't want to stir up drama at her school, or thought she could "tough it out" by herself.

At the end of the film she wasn't really working at that restaurant. She was just left there after her mom's departure, and she cooked some dinner.

The only thing that did feel a bit silly was how her mom just left on a whim with this guy, and how he trusted Lucy alone in the restaurant. Other than that, most things made sense.

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Look, I'm not saying that this movie was UNREALISTIC or that anything that happened to her was STRANGE.
I'm saying that this story sucks because everything was left open and I would much rather go and watch a brainwashed blockbuster than see this.
If one (the director, writer, crew member) wants to make a movie, then damn well make it entertaining.

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Oh, well...you can blame the author of the book for the unfinished threads, movie was just following that. I sorta enjoyed the film, without it being anything extraordinary. Many things in life are left unfinished and unresolved, so maybe the movie wanted to give that feeling of uncertainty. Though I would have liked to see a closure of any kind to her relationship with Kenny.

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that's the point. we already have real life with us. movies are supposed to add something extra. if i wanted to see real life why do i need a movie for that.

you smoke a lotta weed huh.



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Seemed pretty true to life to me, which is a good thing. Hollywood endings make me never want to see a movie again.

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LOL the old "it's so much more realistic" cliche. Also, you must've not watched many Hollywood movies.

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By Hollywood endings, I presume you mean the ridiculously optimistic, happily ever after endings. And while the can be a little cheesy sometimes, to me they are still preferable to the literally and figuratively in the middle of nowhere ending this movie gave us. It was 90 minutes of one depressing event in the life of the protagonist after another, and it just stopped after one such random event.

While the journey is as important as the destination, the latter counts for something too. While listening to a story, we want it to have an end, or atleast the possibility of a new beginning, but this has neither.

I guess I can sum it up by saying that this was a very "feel-bad" movie, and well, we already have the real life for that, don't we.

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Sadly I think this supposed to be an educational movie, teaching girls and women the "modern" standards of behavior. The resolution isn't too important because the details will be different for each member of the audience: some girls will end up as crack whores, some will be murdered, some will become cat hoarders, many of course will become standard petty non-productive drones (/cat caretakers), etc.

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I agree this movie is just awful. Also I'm tired of hollywood using rape as a plot device and the female character never dealing with it ever again. It's just so stupid and unrealistic.

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Actually, I think the rape going unreported was very realistic, there are more unreported cases than reported because the victim often feels ashamed and doesn't want to deal with other people knowing about it.
The problem was not how realistic the movie was, it was how...boring it felt to leave everything out in the open and not conclude the story...it wasn't really a story, it was just a part of their lives...

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I seriously want these 2 hours back!

this is EXACTLY the way i feel. i am so pissed, i coulda been watching something else. I seriously want these 2 hours back TOOOOOO


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First off, why do keep insisting that Hollywood should give you a free half hour? The movie is only 90min.

To the OP, why can't a movie just be a look in the window of a brief moment of the characters' lives? Look at the "Sunrise/Sunset" movies as an example of this. All film doesn't need to be epic in scope, or have total resolution to every plot line. All coming-of-age movies are not created equal; some give you the "What have they become/where are they now" epilog, and others, like this, do not. Isn't it OK to use your own imagination, as the main character did at the end, to wish how things would turn out?

It might have seemed at first glance that they rushed through things that others would have focused on, such as the date rape scene, but I'm kinda glad it didn't turn into an after school special.

As for her supposed promiscuity, that all became clear to me when her mother was pleading her case for her infidelities by saying she had only slept with the dad up to this point of serial cheating, and look how great that turned out. Cut to Kenny telling Lucy that studies show couples that have had previous partners are in happier relationships and that it'd be alright to explore sexually as long as she was a convincing liar about it. This reinforced how she didn't want to repeat the mistakes of her own parents, which was a major point in the story for me.

Why you think that a Transformers movie is an antidote for small indies like this is beyond me. To each his own, I guess.

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i think the transformer thing was meant as a joke. i'm quite sure.

but the rest of your post, sounds too familiar. it's what everyone says whenever someone complains about a boring indie paint drying flick. that's my coomplaint, is it was boring as hell.

as for the two hours thing, that's splitting hairs. really? should he have checked the time log before posting? geesh



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To the OP, why can't a movie just be a look in the window of a brief moment of the characters' lives? Look at the "Sunrise/Sunset" movies as an example of this. All film doesn't need to be epic in scope, or have total resolution to every plot line. All coming-of-age movies are not created equal; some give you the "What have they become/where are they now" epilog, and others, like this, do not. Isn't it OK to use your own imagination, as the main character did at the end, to wish how things would turn out?


When I watch a movie, I usually expect it to relax me, or make me think, or make me feel something. This particular movie felt to me like I was watching someone else's day to day life. Our day to day life is hard enough, I don't want to see it on screen, I want to watch something that is entertaining. An indie film is no problem, as long as it is entertaining, that's all im asking for. And entertaining to me doesn't necessarily mean transformers type blockbusters, it can be a stupid comedy, its ok, but not this type of weird bizarre movie with no closure and no substance.

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First, let me start by saying I have no desire to try and defend this movie or improve your impression of it. It is what it is. But one thing that really struck me is how "American" your reaction to the movie is.

I'm American so I totally understand your reaction. I've lived in Europe for several years for work and the one thing that slammed me over the head from day one is how differently European films look at life vs American films. Almost all American films, especially the commercially successful ones, are designed to force a happy ending on the audience. And many times they are test screened before release and if the audience gets bummed, they reshoot it to make it a happier ending.

Europeans think that strategy of making movies is crazy. Hence so many European movies, especially the French ones, are exactly the opposite. They almost never sugar coat reality and almost never end with a typical Hollywood, everyone rides off in bliss ending. They would argue that all our movies are naive fairy tales designed to pump up our egos. We would argue that their movies are existential and depressing. Very clear differences in style and substance usually.

Personally, I'm not making a value judgement but I did think your review played into the stereotype nicely and it made me laugh.

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Wow, I find some replies here quite interesting. Some seem to not quite understand that different people have different goals in making a film, and some have multiple goals. Some wish to tell a story, some to entertain, some both, probably a few wish neither. Some stories will have a happy "ending" though the characters' lives presumably don't necessarily end when the film does. Some films just look at a brief period of someone's life, with no obvious ending. We all have our own tastes in films. If you like a film, that doesn't mean it was a good film; if you disliked it that also doesn't mean it was a bad film. To me, with my tastes, through my cranial filters, I rather liked it, found it quite realistic, though not at all like my own life.

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Good points, except for one thing - while a happy ending is not necessary, the movie should atleast have an "ending". It should feel like you turned the last page of the book, rather than that you were halfway through and you find that the rest of the pages are blank.

Frankly, this movie could be shown in sex-ed classes in high schools to turn teenagers from wanting to have any sex at all!

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I liked the movie.... I was a teenage girl from teenage parents so to me it just shows what happens when the parents are still growing up themselves. When that happens as a teenage girl it can be rough cause parents are always lecturing you about not "ruining your life by getting pregnant young" and it's tough because ur the "mistake" they're talking about so it can definitely cause some confsion about sex and boys. I was never date raped but I think for the movie it was a very adult thing she had to go through on her own.... ( ie going to planned parenthood on her own to get tested,) Essentially she's already like an orphan. Her dad is almost never there ( and I get his POV because he was an orphan raised In religious orphanage....and what a way to mess a kid up!!!....so he was never really taught HOW to be a parent. But kudos to his character for providing for his family. and her mom is whoring around like a giddy little school girl with no responsibilities. (Reminded me a lot of my mom....she left me and my 7 brothers cause she "didn't want to be a mom anymore" and left my dad/her husband of 15 years when I was only 15. She disappeared for a few years so That scene towards the end with her mom was hard to watch) 😥

I would've liked to see a little more resolution with what Lucy was going to do now that she's completely on her own now but oh well.

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I thought this movie was fabulous and heart-breaking. I grew up in a troubled home, and I related to Lucy "escaping" by making Mario Batali her role model. I loved that the thing she chose to do - cooking meals - was so nurturing and symbolic of family life. My heart broke for her when she made herself a birthday dinner, and her mom had made other plans. (Sarah Bolger was great in that scene.) My personal fantasy life was "The Waltons." Corny, I know.

I'm a mother of teenagers now, and I've seen my friends - other parents - have moments when they wished they could run away. I've had a couple of moments like that myself. I see parents "check out" emotionally even if they're still there physically. So. I thought this film dealt with a true, difficult aspect of life. What happens when, as a parent, it feels so crappy and "not how I wanted you to be," to quote the dad?

The parents in this film, their solutions were horrible. But I felt Lucy's response was powerful and brave, grabbing onto her own dreams.

Totally agree that the rape scene was unnecessary and handled badly in this story.

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