She wasn't that great of a mom
Okay I know i will get backlash on here for saying this, but I'm going to say it anyway: the character Maggie Gylleenhaal played, although she fought for her child's and other children's education, and what she was doing was commendable, at the core, wasn't that great of a parent. She doesn't comb her daughter's hair, instead she has her going to school looking disheveled and like she just woke up, meanwhile dolling herself up. i can't stand when other moms do that. I know she's just a kid but it still matters esp. at school. No wonder the girl felt poorly about herself---the teacher wasn't the only one to blame here. Yes she's a villian and portrayed so, but the mom can't even do simple things like comb her daughter's freakin' hair? And then she's waking her up last minute, having her eat on the way while running? Not only is that a choking hazard, but that's no way for a kid to start their school day1 I allow my 4 year-old time to wake up and have her breakfast at home. I comb her hair before we go to preschool. I'm prepping her for public school this fall. If that means I have to get up an hour earlier so be it. She never heard of an alarm clock before?? I know I'm going by this one scene but that's all I have to go by with her morning routine. And instead of reading to her child at home, and using her bar tips and other job's wages to buy her daughter studying materials, like phonics etc., materials esp. helpful to dyslexics, she's out there "fighting" for her and rallying, when she could be making a difference with her at home. i KNOW it's the teacher's job to do this at school, but learning begins in the home. Also the child had an obvious learning disability, and the mother needed to spend more time fighting for special ed instead of a brand new school. I admire what she was doing, and yes it was commendable, but at the same time, i kind of got the feeling she wasn't really doing it for her daughter, she was doing it more for herself, because it made her feel alive and intelligent and like she had a purpose and was making a difference, neither of her jobs provided that kind of need (receptionist and bartender aren't exactly rewarding jobs). Meanwhile her little girl's at home watching tv with a blank look on her face while somebody else watches her. Sometimes she was with her but most times she wasn't. Then she flirts with the male music teacher---c'moooon! Grow up already. Then she has the nerve to tell her daughter "don't be a brat' when she's watching tv, while the male music teacher comes to the door to watch her. Obviously the girl was feeling neglected and bored as anyone could see by the blank look on her face as she just layed there watching tv.
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