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Some things we learned about living in France


I have to say first of all that I absolutely loved this movie.

1. A six year old's parents will leave her alone in their apartment.

2. A six year old will open the apartment door to any stranger who knocks.

3. A nine year old (was that Laure's age?) will be given her own keys for her to come and go as she pleases.

4. A nine year old girl can go out and play with god knows who deep in the woods without her parents having any clue where she is.

5. French parents will allow their nine year old daughter to be nude (full frontal) in a movie.

6. A nine year old girl will act in a role that requires her to be bare-chested in front of boys.

7. A nine year old can sit on her father's lap and help him drive his car, without wearing a seatbelt.

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You must be an American!

Those who would give up Liberty to purchase Safety deserve neither Liberty nor Safety

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^Je suis Anglaise.

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That is your response? So narrow.

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8. A movie can be unrealistic in minor ways if it allows concise communication of characters and relationships.

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Why is it exactly that the boys can be bare chested in front of the girl, but not the other way around? She didn't have breasts yet anyway!

Even if she did...they are fat deposits people. Get over it.

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I think what the OP was getting at is alot mor practical than that .This girl is a young girl .Showing off her nude body ,its one thing if your and adult woman and want to get naked .It's another if your a minor and your folks allow you to get naked in front of a camera for all to see .The fact that you defend this shows you have no decency.If this was your daughter would let her do a film like this ????
All film whether in france or whether in a america is all about marketing to certain crowd .Get that nonsense out of your head about it being "artistic" we aren't back in the 1400's . The world today isn't ruled by emotion alone let go the leftist looney ideals .
Get with the picture get with the real world boys don't have tits like girls do they have pecs .Boys are different than girls wake the fvck up u have little no grasp on perception and how it works . We aren't in france ,france's outlook on things is a bit on the fence they would rather sit around holding hands singing we are the world .Idealistic Bullsh!t if you ask me this is a minor her innocence should be protected not exploited at least until she is old enough to make her own choices on her own .

Only when society changes will the culture change "

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You just sound like you have really over protective parents, I grew up in the US and spent pretty much everyday playing outside by myself with the neighborhood kids in the woods, I'd wake up, run outside, and the only rule was to be back when the streetlights came on. This movie rang very true to me, its one of the reasons I enjoyed watching it, it was a relatable look at the freedom of childhood.

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Ditto. There were woods and a crick by my house, we'd always play and explore there, and even built a tree house out of materials we stole from the construction workers that were building townhomes nearby. This was very relatable in that sense. The only people I wasn't supposed to answer the door for were the bible beaters.

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"5. French parents will allow their nine year old daughter to be nude (full frontal) in a movie." - Stirchley


Stop sexualising nine year olds, that's really creepy.

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Stop sexualising nine year olds, that's really creepy.


Honi soit qui mal y pense.

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"Honi soit qui mal y pense" - Stirchley


You were the one thinking bad thoughts.

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^Pas de tout.

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"^Pas de tout." - Stirchley


Well that's how it came across. Otherwise, why would it bother you? Why mention it at all if you're fine with it?

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^I'm assuming from the way you spelled sexualising that you do not live in America. Here in America almost no parent would let their child appear on screen naked. Let alone a little girl in full frontal nudity. That is just the way it is here (a lot of parents here will not let their babies or toddlers run on the beach naked). I never brought the word sex into it at all. It was just my POV (as was the rest of my OP list) as an American citizen (albeit one born in England) comparing French mores to our own.

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Not American, I live in the UK. Although the UK isn't as free minded as most of Europe we appear to be considerably more open minded about it than America, or at least the popular view of America. This is also echoed in your post about not allowing toddlers to run naked on the beach.

No, you didn't bring the word "sex" into it at all, but you seemed to suggest that a naked nine year old girl was somehow offensive in a sexual way. And as your avatar is a Union Flag, and you had claimed to be English, I assumed you were brought up as a Brit and this seemed at odds with your point.

Usually these types of lists on IMDB are designed to mock or gently ridicule the contents of the film concerned, and that is why I took a negative view of that particular item.

I apologise if I got it wrong.

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And as your avatar is a Union Flag, and you had claimed to be English, I assumed you were brought up as a Brit and this seemed at odds with your point.


I am British, but I have lived in America for more than half my life. I have no personal problem with nudity whatsoever. I am not ashamed of my body nor anyone else's. If someone wants to strip naked, go for it, say I.

As I said before, what I was commenting on (as, indeed, I said in the title of my OP) is the difference between life in France and life in America. I think at the time I posted I meant it as rather tongue-in-cheek too since I have not forgotten my British sense of humor.

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"I have not forgotten my British sense of humor." - Stirchley


Whereas, it appears that I have :(

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You're a Brummy, right?

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You're a Brummy, right?


What makes you think that?

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http://www.stirchley.co.uk/

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^You are the first and only person on imdb.com who has figured that out.

Where do you live in the UK?

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Stoke on Trent, but I used to work in the Birmingham area.

It's 3:40 am here, so I'm out. If you reply I'll get it in the morning. Au revoir.

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It's 3:40 am here, so I'm out.


Believe it or not, I only just came across your reply to me.

Typical Brit - out and about at all hours of the night!

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Actually Tomboy is just like any french movies: they depict how real life really is, because I can pretty much relate to the life of french kids in Tomboy. You got to stop comparing them to hollywood movies.

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Well I'd say (as a 30 yo French guy) that some of the things in the list would be relatively rare today. Not the nudity part obviously, but all the "unsafe" things would not fly with most parents today, after all awareness of child molesters is far stronger today that when I was a kid left to play alone all the time. Same for all sorts of accidents and dangerous unnecessary things. I spent a lot of time on a BMX bike doing all sorts of stunts and crashing a lot, but somehow didn't have a helmet or any other protection, seems pretty stupid retrospectively.

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Some American parents allow their kids to do number 7. Rural areas make it even easier. Its less of a thing now because you have a better chance of being pulled over.

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