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Kim treated her sister inlaw so RUDE!!!


I could tell she made Kris's sister feel unwelcome and awkward. I felt bad for her. Kim is a total C&nt!

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I find Kris not telling Kim that his sister was coming for a visit until the last minute to be rude. His reasoning is that it is his house and he can do whatever he wants whenever he wants sounds like something a teenager says to their parents.

Yes Kris it is your house, but it's Kim's house too. So now that you live together you have to communicate more and run things by each other out of respect. Sorry but that's what happens when you get married or live together.

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I see your point of him being rude also but i felt bad for his sister kim wouldn't even go near her.

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kris was rude, but the point is, kim took it out on his sister which is incredibly rude; and what kris didn't wasn't exceptionally rude -- especially since Kim took time out of her supposedly busy schedule to hang out with a pyschic

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I would be really pissed off if I was Kim. Kris definitely should have told her his sister would be in town... he has some real neanderthal qualities. BUT, Kim was ridiculous. She couldn't find ANY time to meet up with the sister... even if it would be for a quick lunch date or coming out to see her after work. She was ridiculously rude and selfish.

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It's his house... He shouldn't have to ask if his FAMILY can come over. Do you think Kim asks if it's ok for Khloe or her mom to come over?

It felt like Kris was never allowed to feel like it was his home.

When my boyfriend and I moved in together the only time we asked if someone could come over was when it was going to be late at night and it was a friend or two. He never asked me if it was ok for his family to come over. He tells me the morning of. Which is how it should be.

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ok but it would be still be considerate of him to let his wife, the other person who's house it is, know who will be visiting and when. its common courtesy and plus its his wife, she should know things like that. it was inconsiderate of kris

though i agree with everyone that kim didnt have to take out her frustration on kris's sister as she didnt even know kim wasnt told she was coming. it wasn't his sister's fault.

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I'm shocked Kaela came there to spend time with Kim without talking to Kim first.

I think it's fine for her to blow into town and want to see her brother. But that wasn't good enough. She was obsessed with being Kim's BFF.

I personally wouldn't want an in-law forced on me. I would want to know they are coming and personally agree to do something with them.

I would never just go to my brother's house expecting to spend time with his wife without her knowing, and he wouldn't do that to my boyfriend either. Common sense.

Really, Kris and Kim were playing power games with one another as usual. This wasn't a marriage as much as a mental wrestling match.

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Although I am not a fan of Kim, I do think that she was right that Kris should have let her know about his sister, coming. People do need some notification if someone is going to be coming to their place to spend time for a few days. While Kris doesn't necessarily have to ask for permission for his sister to come, it would have still been good to at least let her know what was going on. I do agree that there was definitely a power issue going on here, between the both of them. Kim wanted to control situations, Kris did not want to be controlled, and instead of trying to compromise on things, the both of them just pulled away from each other, and did their own thing.














"Stop grinning like a psycho, and get back to work." Doakes, on Dexter

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If Kris had given Kim a weeks notice, she would have really no excuse for not making time for his sister. Assuming Kim has a busy schedule, a head's up would have been nice. And it's not about asking permission, it's about keeping each other in the loop. It's common courtesy.

Kim said she was uncomfortable hanging out with the sister considering the tension she was feeling with Kris. I didn't see her be outwardly rude or nasty to Kaela, it seemed like Kim just stayed away (with work or psychics or whatever else she was doing).

Not a fan of Kim either. She's a major PIA and always has been (and Kris still married her). I'm not surprised by her behavior anymore. But with Kris, some of the stuff he says/does rubs me the wrong way. He acts like a single guy and he's got this 'nobody's gonna tell me what to do' attitude. They BOTH made a mistake in getting married too quickly.

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On one aspect, I can imagine how difficult it would be to be in a relationship with someone like Kim, who is a control freak when it comes to organizing and things like that. Things have to be done her way or no way, and for someone like Kris that just wasn't going to fly. Some people start getting rebellious when they have to deal with a perfectionist. All of these things should have been discussed before hand, but they didn't do any of that, so fault is on both of them for that. I kind of liked the fact that Kris is not like Scott, who was just a complete pushover and punching bag for the family. He actually said what he had to say, and wouldn't let Kim run over him. In a way, that is good, but also, there had to be some compromise, which was what they did not do.









"Stop grinning like a psycho, and get back to work." Doakes, on Dexter

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That episode was weird since it seemed like she didn't hang out with Kaela at all, especially since there are pics of Kaela with Kim at Kendall's fashion week modeling. Kim couldn't do the same and go to Kaela's runway debut though. This was all back in September, I can't understand how it would be that awkward to spend a few minutes with her sister in law when she was only married for a month at that point.

Just let your SOOUUULLLLL GLOOOOOO

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Kris didn't tell Kim that his sister was coming, so Kim hadn't worked out her schedule to fit time in with her.
If she had notice I am sure she would have probably re arranged things, but she can't just cancel things she has lined up to hang out with her sister in law, cos it would hurt her professionally.

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