You've made some valid points.
She only informed folks on what she wanted them to know. Also, she told one of the co-workers that she had to take off personal time because of her father passing away.
The co-workers were shocked to discover that her Father died after she did.
But we have all done what she has done at one point of our life. We've all tried to "fit" in. When most of us were young, we were still trying to find ourselves. I believe because her Mom died so early, she was distant from her Father and had to have her sisters raise her, she didn't developed as well emotionally. One of her ex-boyfriends mentioned this.
I think she used relationships to cope and the last relationship was extremely bad which landed her in the refuge for domestic abuse victims.
She moved into the bedsit in March 2003, had the ulcer operation in November 2003 and died in December 2003. I took from the movie that we have to become more responsible for our emotional help, try and obtain help when we need it and cultivate some strong relationships for tough times.
She might have felt so used and distrustful by the time she moved into the flat, she preferred to be alone. Or she might have been hiding from the abuser and didn't want to contact her family so that the abuser could not find her. She was wrapping presents so they might have been for some of the family members.
However, I believe she could have reached out to someone between March 2003 - November 2003. She could have written one of her sisters or wrote Martin. She could telephoned someone to informed them of where she was located.
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