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Hands Down the Best Movie About Fathers Ever


Caught this on Showtime, they must have it On Demand in honor of Father's Day.

I'll take this honest, heartfelt look at fatherhood and how becoming a parent changes you any day over all the other shlocky, stupid movies about bumbling, foolish Dads out there. Why does Hollywood want to make Dads look so ridiculous?

I really appreciated this movie a lot. Seeing all those bad ass guys interacting with their kids was really moving. Flea was crying about being a Dad! Flea!

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I agree. This is on Showtime OnDemand right now.
I watched it yesterday and I found surprisingly moving.

My father passed away about 6 years ago, so ever since I have sort of ignored Father's Day. That whole idea did not even enter my mind yesterday when I started watching this movie. By the end I was quite moved at what great fathers these punks have become.

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This was a wonderful look into the lives of people most would consider troublemakers, bad seeds, delinquents.

I hope something people can take away from this is the need to be good parents and fathers to their children. It's also not always about providing financial support - children need fathers.

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The one so called punk-rocker (that's a different debate for a different thread) who said he "just pinched" his little girl as a punishment made me want to call social services or better yet, find him myself, kick the door of his house down, grab that poor little girl and run as fast and as far away from him as possible, such a sweet father that he is. Who says poseur punks don't bring out the violence in everyone? By the time his little girl is 18, she will be beating up her own children and making her daddy proud.

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So you're a father, thereby implying of the male gender? You saw the pinch and know for sure that it wasn't just to get her attention but, in fact, was excruciatingly painful and not just a squeeze to let her know to knock it off? And you've never spanked? Lemme guess, you vote reliably left and believe you know better than everyone else. Thank god you're out there to save us from ourselves...

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Actually, I am a woman, and my " political" beliefs only encompass the simple words that I changed my signature to below. I remember being impressed with this documentary for numerous reasons, including the way the people in the film were portrayed as unreservedly living their lives, raising their children, and living their lives with a freedom many would envy, yet with social consequences that they did not care about - all of which were parts of the main subject I believe the documentarian wanted us to see. His point of view was well made, and the film was well crafted. I remember all of that.

I do not remember the particular father that pinched his daughter. However, for that passing remark or episode to have caused me to react as I did means I felt, so I still feel, that individual needs serious help with parenting skills. "I was spanked/slapped/pinched/punched/belittled when I was I child so there's nothing wrong with it" is most definitely NOT a valid argument. It is obvious to me by your comments that there would not be a reasonable debate with you on this subject. I will say I am very sorry for you, I feel sorrow at the childhood you obviously had, and I fear for your children. They will repeat the pattern of abuse and that, THAT is the saddest part of your life story.

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I am watching now and I agree that it's refreshing to see fathers being shown in a different light. Intelligent men who want to do right by their kids without sacrificing who they are.

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It's available on Netflix and is worth watching. I was especially impressed at the end when Lindbergh said the way to change the world is to raise better kids and being more attentive to those kids. Instead of writing a punk rock song, be better parents.

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I agree. Just watched this and really liked it. Somebody needs to make that a slogan!!

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The songs might not age, but people sure as hell do, and here we see that even the music "heroes" of a generation have to find new perspective in live with first gray hairs and new obligations of being a parent. Really interesting and moving stuff.

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