I'm not even sure she'd want the job in reality. Since she was shy, plus didn't really seem like the Type A, competitive type. And its ok for people to be that way. I thought that was one of the messages of the movie - its ok to be "different" and follow your own path. To accept yourself, your "flaws", etc. As long as you're happy, who cares what anyone else thinks.
I know I've turned down higher responsibility jobs because I knew I couldn't handle the pressure/stress/responsibility. I know my limitations, strengths, and weaknesses. Not every job will be compatible for me. Not everyone has to be super ambitious/driven or define themselves or their success thru their career to feel purposeful or accomplished in life. More to life than work, power, and money, after all. And no, I'm not some rich, pampered, trust fund a-hole, thank you very much. I just know from experience who I am and what my values are, and what I am and am not willing to put up with. Like Tim and Janice. Life's too short to put up with abuse from anyone (partner, employer, co-workers, classmates, family, etc).
So yeah, it always kinda bums me out in indies when people "magically" become "normal", more assertive, "grown-up", etc at the end. Not that easy, folks. And why should people have to be that way?
The bar scene where the 2 (especially Tim) are being all social kinda bugged me for that reason, too. Is he an awkward misfit or isn't he? lol Maybe just situationally awkward. And he felt more comfortable among friends. Guess I was just kinda hoping those 2 were more the "private", introvert type, preferring 1 on 1 company to loud, overwhelming bars and big groups of people. Guess I was just projecting. Oh well. But its almost like they threw those 2 scenes in to make the characters more "normal", as if they were afraid people wouldn't find them "likeable" if they didn't :-/ But yeah, if I were her, I'd probably just be happy feeding the monkeys or the kids (same thing lol) or whatever she did there (been awhile since I watched) :-)
"I like you 'cuz you're real. You don't pretend you've got it all figured out like everyone else."
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