Getting laid / losing virginity is only a matter of choice for girls
But for young males, it is a matter of being attractive enough, confident enough, to get the opportunity in the first place.
That's a sexist misconception. Do you think a hideous girl has an easier time getting laid than a moderately unattractive guy?
Anybody, anywhere can get laid, period. Some people are just too dense to see the opportunities.
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"Pride is not the opposite of shame, but its source. True humility is the antidote to shame."
I'm just saying that an average looking woman can get laid a lot more easily than an average looking guy, all other things equal. An ugly woman can get laid a lot more easily than an ugly man. An obese woman can get laid a lot more easily than an obese man. A midget woman can get laid a lot more easily than a midget male. And so on.
I understand your ego problem with admitting that women have it easier in this aspect of life (attracting sex partners). Its not a sexist misconception. Its just a fact that makes you uncomfortable and invalidates a lot of your beliefs and concerns as a woman.
I can give you plenty of evidence and arguments.
Feminist ideology, lesbianism and hatred of men blinds the commenter above to the obvious. She even calls you sexist for being a realist. And dense for telling the truth. Have fun!
shareTrue. Guys are way more desperate than girls when it comes to sex! Some of them would have sex with anyone just for the sake to lose virginity. That's why this movie is a joke. Any woman could get laid.
shareGuys are way more desperate than girls when it comes to sex! Some of them would have sex with anyone just for the sake to lose virginity. That's why this movie is a joke. Any woman could get laid.
If you ask me that's why this movie works. She is able to get so much sexual experience because she is a girl and really doesn't have to try very hard. If this movie were about a guy it would not have been realistic. The girl that likes him (Cameron's role) would likely not have gone along with all the random handjob/fingerbanging without a little more romance and self-assurance involved. Cameron's friend (Duffy), in hearing about what happened, would not have sought the boy out for a dry hump afterwards and Chip's female counterpart, hearing about his list, would not have approached him to perform oral sex on him.
When a cold momma gets hot, boy how she sizzles! share
The movie doesn't make sense because no girl is that big a slut.... not because most girls can't get laid easily.
shareI can give you plenty of evidence and arguments.
yes, please do. give us some evidence and arguments.
i have observed that most women end up with men who are less good looking then they are. i don't think that i have ever seen a woman with a man who is better looking than she is.
it is pretty much understood that we trade down in looks....
but i am still open minded enough to hear about your evidence. share
OrangeandYellow
What is this topic about? Getting married OR getting laid? Answer this question first.
I have another question for you. Do you know the meaning of "willfully obtuse". Consider again how open minded you are.
What is this topic about? Getting married OR getting laid?
either one.
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Wait, wait, wait, wait wait...Tell me you dont see any difference between the dynamics of the two?
Tell me you dont see a world of a fkn difference between the "marriage marketplace/realm/arena" and the "casual sex hooking-up marketplace/arena"
in terms of inequity? no, i see it in all of those circumstances.
While they're young...once a woman is past 40 she virtually disappears from a lot of guys' radar, e.g. on dating sites, and the advantage shifts to men where it stays for the rest of their lives. So on the whole I think it evens out pretty well and maybe even slightly in favour of guys over your entire lifetime.
Kaiser
^ Kaiser, I agree re: Age, past 40.
Sadly, women often do become "invisible" past a certain age with men. It's just as bad a reflection on MEN as it is on women: Males are hard-wired to be quite superficial in seeking mates (i.e. LOOKS).
that's really unlogic reasoning if we are talking about sex between a guy and a girl. Girls have sex just as much as guys, guys have sex just as much as girls - it takes two to tango!!!!!!!!. I actually think it's the opposite of what you are saying. There are way more attractive girls in the world than there are attractive men since girls have more pressure on themselves to look beautiful, there are for example therefore more obese men out there than there are obese women (look it up). Logically that would mean that more overweight men have sex than overweight women!
aaand since girls and guys have sex just as much (which is also pure logic as stated earlier) it is indeed a fact that it's equally demanding to get laid whatever gender you are, only uglier guys get laid more often than ugly girls.