How do gay men put up with this stuff?
I just watched this film and was beyond moved, it really blew me away. I just thought the realism of russel and glens relationship was stunning, photography was beautiful, and was one of the few lower-budget british films that didnt at some point make me clench my bum cheeks in embarrassment at the cringey acting.
But as a straight girl, the main thing for me was that it really put into perspective how skewed and just pretty much incorrect the usual portrayal of gay men is in film/tv. I honestly dont understand how gay men (and women for that matter, but thats a whole other mess) can stomach the usual picture thats painted of their relationships - now, in the modern world, in western society? Not that I've watched a wide range of gay themed films because, lets face it, they're not exactly playing alongside Marley and Me down at the odeon, but every portrayal of a gay relationship I can think of right now is camp, full of innuendo yet physically sterile. All tight vests and blow job jokes but strictly NO kissing on the mouth.
Weekend was the opposite. In fact I'm struggling to think of a recent film in which even a straight relationship is so honestly and realistically depicted. I absolutely loved it, but doesn't it make you sad when you think about the relatively tiny fraction of people who are ever going to see it? I don't think any of my straight male or female friends would watch it. I think they, like a frighteningly large portion of straight society, have the same knowledge and understanding of a relationship between two men as they do of a relationship between two badgers. And that sh*t scares me (the lack of understanding, not the thought of two badgers in love).
Anyway that's the end of my rant. I just think that if I was a gay man watching most wide release films which includes a gay relationship, I would spend a looot of time banging my head against the tv.