I hate movies where there is a white male and a black girl love stories
Okay -- fair warning, you guys are going to HATE this post. So I will understand if there is some backlash.
I dislike these types of movies because they are disingenuous. white male/black female pairings in movies are a gimmick.
We know that there is an imbalance between [insert race] and black women in Hollywood movies and real life because most [insert race]men, culturally, are not attracted to black women...at least as a norm. Some black women are not attracted to them, because they know that they are not attracted to us. In other words, black women don't even consider non-black men or even think of them as being in our dating pool.
The other reason men date outside of their race LESS frequently than women, is because men created racism. So they are more likely to uphold racist idealogies and staying within their own race, than women. Racist ideologies were imposed on women by men who created racism, only the rules are a bit more difficult to enforce, which is why women date outside of their race MORE than men.
Bear in mind, I am a black woman and I don't think the reason that [insert race] men find us unattractive has anything to do with any of us personally. It's just their culture. We don't meet the definition of what their culture has set as the standard of beauty. The problem is when we [black people] begin to adopt outside ideals as our own perception of beauty, that problems arise for black women, creating an imbalance (fewer men for black women to marry).
I think white males who disagree with this point of view will only do so because they hate being told what they think, and being told what they will and what they will not do (which is another reason why so many are athiests). But the truth is, they just aren't attracted to black women. That is no insult to us as black women, it's just the way that it is and just the way that they are.
As for the movie, I hated the way he LEERED at the girl. I mean, he looks like a nice kid, but the perception in America has always been that when white men are interested in black women it's purely sexual and the white male is merely acting on his curiosity. So that was the filter through which I viewed the movie.
But admittedly, then couple in this movie did have some chemistry. I thought it was all a little corny. I liked the movie because of its feel good themes.
Some couples do break the mold. but as I said, perceptions of those very unique relationships are disingenuous and gimmicky. It's not a reflection of real life.
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