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Only made it through 20 minutes. Utter *beep*

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I wrote that I only watched 20 minutes of film and rated it a 1 on IMDB because I was utterly bored and annoyed. They imdb message board crowd bit my head off. You would have thought I called their kid ugly or something.

That said. I watched the entire length of The Guilt Trip. I didn't dislike it as much as I did this other film. Having said that it was simple, not well done, predictable and a bit boring.

Don't feel bad! Honesty is refreshing.

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Yeah, it's not good. Barbra and Seth are both great, but the writing is terrible. Who would actually hit someone in a bar? And he's been trying to sell his product for five years, but still hasn't realized how bad his presentation and product marketing are? I'm about halfway through - and now they're stereotyping Texans as people who eat tons of food. Ugh.

We'll see how the rest of it goes...

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Hollywood ALWAYS stereotypes Texans. That's because Hollywood never went there. I lived in nearly every part of Texas and the "Texas drawl" is only evident in scattered areas. Otherwise, they speak a very good brand of English. The biggest eaters in Texas are on the southern border.

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I'm with you. The first 20 minutes was awful and I put the movie on pause. I came back the next day and it got better, but not much. I was expecting some laughs and I never got any. I would never go across country with my mother. I went across country twice with women my own age and nearly dumped both of them on the highway.

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I enjoyed the movie. I enjoyed the actors and the characters they played. I'm sorry that there are people who didn't. It takes all kinds of folks and all kinds of movies to make this old world go around.

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Pulled it up on Netflix today and made it 1/2 way through. Just crap, and I love me some Barbra. This movie was terrible (sorry - what I saw of it was terrible!).

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To no one in particular ... this movie would be painful to watch I think for some because it is about a particular type of relationship, that between a mother and her son, and a very docile son at that except that he has managed to distance himself from her, or so she thinks. My brother is always telling me that there is no stronger relationship than that between a mother and her son, and often refers to our mother as "my mother," as if I don't exist. Of course, he has his own problems. Anyway, no, this movie would not be for everyone.

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I think it takes a more mature person, and I don't mean age, to understand this movie. It deals with a complex relationship, which i'm sure anyone who has experienced would love this movie, that of a single mother and her only child, her son. I related to the way he was irritated by his mother but he loved her and the conflict between those two feelings. I, now older and wiser, related to her need for his attention, he's all she ever had and she devoted her life to him for many years, all she knows and he's gone.

People are watching this movie expecting pineapple express and are then disappointed, somehow Seth Rogan has been pigeonholed and so people don't expect him to venture outside of that hole. I though 'Funny People' with Adam Sandler was a similar issue. I feel that these people are then unable to open their minds and experience the touching film before them. I didn't laugh hardly at all during this movie, but I smiled a lot, it was very cute and close to home its just a shame it wasn't marketed that way.

I hope more people see this film and enjoy it. I thought the closing shot at the airport depicting all the sons and mothers was a very subtle but poignant shot.

It gets an 8 from me.

Its better to die on your feet than to live on your knees

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I really liked the closing shot at the airport as well. It was a really special touch. I'm glad others noticed it too!

I didn't necessarily have any expectations of the movie, other than that it would be somewhat funny - which it wasn't. I most definitely wasn't expecting Pineapple Express (why would anyone suggest that?!), but something along the lines of a classic rom-com like You've Got Mail, where the touching scenes were touching, and the funny scenes were funny. The first part of this movie, "the comedy part" was SO painful. Barbra Streisand meddling, Barbra Streisand going into the office where here son is giving a presentations (could she not wait in a Starbuck's or something?), strippers fixing their car, Barbra eating a 4 pound steak, Barbra and Seth in a strip club, etc. You get my point. It was all so cliche. The only time I laughed was during the end credits when Barbra hits the pedestrian.

The over-acrching storyline about a complex mother-son relationship was great, and it basically turned into a decent film after they left Texas. I give it a 6.

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I agree with you, TreelDeal 1000 percent! I totally related the characters to myself and my own mother. We did take a cross country trip together back in 1970 when I was 19 and she was 43. I found myself smiling a lot during this movie.

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I understand that perspective. I've watched movies and thoroughly enjoyed them...NOT that they were particularly great movies, but I could connect with the characters they sketched...they told a story. Some that I like, but that are also often panned by others include In a Day with Lorrain Pilkington and Finlay Robertson, and Far North with Charles Durning and Jessica Lange. They both have some weird parts, but I connect with them and don't worry that lots of folks don't see them like I do.

I enjoyed this one because it told a story...perhaps not a normal story, but a story about a son and his loving but desperate for attention and meddling mother. I thought Streisand played that role so well. Of course it was lots different than the Streisand in What's Up Doc...but that's good, not bad that she plays other parts now...parts that perhaps she feels are fitting for her age.

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I have to agree with the OP, and I am a fan of Streisand from way way back (Funny Girl, 1968). This film seemed like a poor vehicle for her talents. The plot was flimsy, predictable and boring, the dialog was mediocre, and for me it was painful to see this once gorgeous actress portraying a stereotypical, frumpy Jewish mother. I thought the pig-out scene in the steak house was humiliating. Yes there were a few funny lines, mostly from Seth Rogen, and some poignant moments. But overall I was left feeling empty and sad for Barbra. She is a great lady and I felt this movie was beneath her.

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"Sad" summed it up for me too, but I was also mad; mad that Barbra let the best years of her movie career slip by when she should have been churning them out. Now she's stuck playing "mother" to the current flavor of the month; in this case, the completely mediocre Seth Rogan.

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I didn't hate it and I didn't love it. I watched it all the way through and will probably never watch it again. As others have pointed out, it's really about an adult son's relationship with his mother and the conflict in trying to be separate without alienating/rejecting her. I can see how this would be "too close for comfort for some" or "boring/blah" for some, but all in all, it's a harmless story just telling one person's point of view.

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I watched it all the way through and liked it but Seth is so hard to watch, he always looks as though he has a dip of Skoal in his mouth and it constantly looks like a big dollop of spit is going to spillover his bottom lip and spill down his chin.
Also he has a constant 5 o'clock shadow, as if he has whiskers of steel that are impervious to any razor made and that makes it hard to look at him for any length of time. He may be going for the sexy Miami Vice look but he's not the type that can pull that off, he's no Don Johnson.

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