Why does Bethenny get all the blame?

She's crazy on her own for sure, but Jason likes to poke and prob the sleeping bear, especially over his own insecurities. I think that he enjoys the drama more than he lets on.

Bethenny irritates me. My interpretation through Bethenny's therapy sessions where she proclaims how "damaged" she is, is that she really thinks she is better than most people, including Jason. If she were poor, her bitchy attitude and self destruction would be way "cooler" than boring Jason because she would have a personality. Since she's rich though, she is way cooler AND wealthier than Jason, so he is lucky to have her. She reminds me of people I know who are unkind/negative toward people and life in general and blame it on genetics or are PROUD of their behavior. IMO, being mean and snarky is not something to be proud of. Being a kind person is.

But, Bethenny is rich so... *shrug*... I guess she can keep acting this way because it is building her empire.