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I guess a lot of you were correct ...


that Bethenny's marriage would not last. Even we die-hard fans probably knew it wasn't going to last, but it is sad. Two nice people who couldn't figure out how to get along.

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A lot of them want it to fail. This is not a divorce, just a separation. But yet we all know what that usually means.

I am a die hard Bethenny fan but still like her even though her personality can be hard to take for some. I hope she and Jason can work things out, I think they are a great couple.

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Two nice people who couldn't figure out how to get along.


Well, that's half right... One nice person and one control freak.
I tried so hard to like Bethenny. But she treated Jason and his parents so badly that I just couldn't like her anymore. She's just not marriage material... Maybe because she never experienced a happy marriage between her parents. So she never learned how to nurture a marriage. But that's really just giving her the benefit of the doubt. Because lots of people from broken marriages go on to have good and lasting marriage because they learned from their parents mistakes. Bethenny just seems to be a narcissistic control freak. And poor Jason (and his parents) had to walk on eggshells just to please her and keep the peace. No one can live like that for long.
They supposedly had a prenup... I just hope Jason gets his share of the empire that he helped to build. Because, even though it was Bethenny's idea, he helped to make it all happen.
I wonder if this breakup will hurt her talk show ratings?





I wish these guys would stop jumping

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lynn'srealm, I agree with some of what you say. However, it takes two to make a good marriage and, equally, it takes two to make a bad marriage. (BTW, I happen to like Bethenny.) Jason seemed to be the ideal husband, but some of the things he did I did not like (he had some passive-aggressive behavior sometimes). But then who has the perfect husband? I do think Bethenny will not find as nice a husband as Jason again (even if she wants to remarry, which I doubt.) I kind of wish she had not miscarried and had had her second child; maybe that would have saved the marriage.

With regard to a prenup, I am guessing Bethenny had Jason sign one.

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I have the perfect husband.

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^In your dreams?

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Oh man, be nice! GEEZ!

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Um, ok. If only everyone could find perfect love. I hope you find it. I have it.

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^So you keep telling us.

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If it's that good, spread the word, shout it from the rooftops. Sorry you're not happy. I hope you find someone who fills your heart and brings you joy from the time you wake up until the time you go to sleep. Everyone. should have it at some point. Spoiled girl!

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It does NOT (necessarily) take two to make a bad marriage.


So you do concede that some bad marriages are caused by both partners.

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Yep, I saw this coming almost from the beginning. They're just now suited.

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It is sad that it didn't last but they were both pretty horrible to each other at times. Bethenny of course had her troubles but Jason was manipulative and called out her crazy all of the time which was shown in the second season.

Also, I don't know why Bethenny thought it was OK to share their intimate sex lives on her talk show. Then the camera would pan to Jason smiling but clearly uncomfortable.

It's sad for their child though. She's isn't going to remember a time that they were together. I guess she can watch their reality shows.


Awesome Sauce!

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They both have issues.

A little tired of some people (I have read in other forums) going on about how Jason was the perfect husband, blah blah blah.

Not true. Because she was not raised as he was, he would call her "crazy" or "damaged". He was also passive aggressive and manipulative.

As for her talking about their sex life, Jason KNOW WHAT HER PERSONALITY WAS WHEN THE MARRIED.

She, on the other hand, did not know when to stop being "snarky".

I like Jason, even with his faults, but how he is handling things is a little silly. She used him for a baby? She didn't have to marry him.. or even see him anymore.. after she got pregnant. She married you because she loved you, stupid.

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^"She used him for a baby". Is that what Jason is saying? He said himself in one episode that she drove him crazy when he was trying to get her to marry him. I think his exact words were that she drove him crazy for six months.

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